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9/2/09
Why do women take trrying to be friends as being hit on?
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I know this is a sports site, but why do majority of the women think that all guys who are wanting to be friends are trying to hook up??

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9/2/09
24
Ummm...not all women. I have alot of friends and majority are guys. I don't take alot of the stuff that is said on here seriously! I am just here to have fun!

9/2/09
13
(Edited by NMboyzfan)
Uh, maybe because they receive so many emails from rich, ungodly handsome men in bulgaria claiming to be looking for their soulmate?

9/2/09
24
Ummm...not all women. I have alot of friends and majority are guys. I don't take alot of the stuff that is said on here seriously! I am just here to have fun!

9/2/09
17
For some crazy reason I think women sometimes think men are a bunch of dogs, I don't know, I just get that feeling...


9/2/09
11
Woof!

9/2/09
6
Oh you mean they dont want then?

9/2/09
6
"Hookup tactics 101"--Any guy who says he's afriend is trying to hookup with you .Be advised.

This book is kinda like Bible to them..they dont even care if the author was hanged for adultery with mannequins and that he wrote it when he was high.

9/2/09
14
I've got friends in low places........

9/2/09
9
NorseHeathen wrote:
Woof!
hahahah I like being hit on - makes me feel excited heheheh!!!! I don't mind it one bit LOL !!!

9/2/09
3
amen!!! brother

9/2/09
6
i was actually commenting on the girls that have emailed us guys wanting to trade pics and cant speak a lick of english, but they just want ur checking acct #.  sorry if i misled ya on that. not saying that all women do it, they know who they are without question. lol

9/2/09
7
Oh heck....Many Men and women both.... question motives. I guess when people finally realize they are adults, they don't have to play into the boy/ girl game Come to terms that  It is ok to be open, honest and upfront with interest, desires...intentions....lol....its how it"s Going to be. How nice it would be...if we didn't have to second guess each other.

9/2/09
6
18packabs wrote:
I've got friends in low places........
oh ...and arn't they just wonderfull!!!!!

9/2/09
5
stumpy wrote:
i was actually commenting on the girls that have emailed us guys wanting to trade pics and cant speak a lick of english, but they just want ur checking acct #.  sorry if i misled ya on that. not saying that all women do it, they know who they are without question. lol
Oh my gosh.....if you realize thats what shes asking....shes doin it all wrong.

9/2/09
5
helios7 wrote:
"Hookup tactics 101"--Any guy who says he's afriend is trying to hookup with you .Be advised.

This book is kinda like Bible to them..they dont even care if the author was hanged for adultery with mannequins and that he wrote it when he was high.
So what are you saying...as long as we know "they" are delusional we can go ahead and have our way with them?

9/2/09
3
BelieveN_Magic wrote:
So what are you saying...as long as we know "they" are delusional we can go ahead and have our way with them?
because they are women......duh

9/3/09
9
18packabs wrote:
I've got friends in low places........
Don't we all?? LOL

9/3/09
9
Cali_Kat wrote:
Don't we all?? LOL
I guess we do....

9/3/09
2
thank you all!!!

9/3/09
5
Hey I'm in West Virginia I could flirt all I want and it would not do me any good since the members are from all over.

9/3/09
10
Me no need bank count numba, no soul mate nedda. I be gooood fwend 4 1 nite maybe 2 if u good. Wink, wink, goose, spank. LMFAO!

9/3/09
10
No offense.. my personally opinion only.. guys make better friends than girls. Females r caddy! An most men don't hold grudges the way females.. well this female does. Lol

9/3/09
5
*whoops personal

9/3/09
3
MKSHIZNIT wrote:
Me no need bank count numba, no soul mate nedda. I be gooood fwend 4 1 nite maybe 2 if u good. Wink, wink, goose, spank. LMFAO!
that s what im talking about!!!! but thank you for your positive and UNASSUMING attitude

9/3/09
4
alainpeartree wrote:
that s what im talking about!!!! but thank you for your positive and UNASSUMING attitude
lol I'm soooooo jokin. I couldn't help myself tho.

9/4/09
1
MKSHIZNIT wrote:
lol I'm soooooo jokin. I couldn't help myself tho.
I know,,,,, but we can say things like this and not be taken seriously

9/8/09
2
I don't know but I take it all seriously........lol

9/9/09
2
gr8freebird wrote:
because they are women......duh
Grrrrrrrrrrrrr.......Why do men?

9/9/09
5
MKSHIZNIT wrote:
No offense.. my personally opinion only.. guys make better friends than girls. Females r caddy! An most men don't hold grudges the way females.. well this female does. Lol
AMEN AND HALLELUJAH!

9/9/09
9
Doesn't this go both ways? I know I love to talk about myself... (big surprise, what woman doesn't?!) But that doesn't mean I am  trying to hook up with everyone I talk to! (Well, maybe the Steelers fans...)

9/9/09
0
i guess its all on personality to personality basis on how people perceive things.

9/9/09
3
You mean all those "homered off you' aren't invitations?   Damn, I was just beginning to feel good about myself too. :P

9/9/09
5
das3cr wrote:
You mean all those "homered off you' aren't invitations?   Damn, I was just beginning to feel good about myself too. :P
I must be the only one who didn't know what 'homered off' meant until recently, and even now I'm not sure if I found out the truth... Maybe I'll go back to being a blonde... 

9/9/09
6
That's because I am hitting on you all!!!! 

9/9/09
2
LJHeath73 wrote:
Doesn't this go both ways? I know I love to talk about myself... (big surprise, what woman doesn't?!) But that doesn't mean I am  trying to hook up with everyone I talk to! (Well, maybe the Steelers fans...)
HMMMMM SO MUCH FOR THE COWBOYS FANS,,,, HMMMMM

9/9/09
5
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
HMMMMM SO MUCH FOR THE COWBOYS FANS,,,, HMMMMM
Hahaha.... Ok, I am equal opportunity!! Ask anyone... Well, as long as you're not wearing your Cowboys jersey... bleeeccchhhh!!!!

9/9/09
4
(Edited by LJHeath73)

9/9/09
5
*pokes sticks in the bushes looking for MPRacing*

9/9/09
1
LJHeath73 wrote:
Hahaha.... Ok, I am equal opportunity!! Ask anyone... Well, as long as you're not wearing your Cowboys jersey... bleeeccchhhh!!!!
how 'bout My cap...is that acceptable

9/9/09
5
*Chuckles quietly while poking bushes, watching leaves fall from the tree above, knowing exactly where he went but playing along so he lets his guard down*

9/9/09
5
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
how 'bout My cap...is that acceptable
Maybe if you turn it backwards so I don't see it!

9/9/09
4
I DON'T AND I AM A WOMAN,HAVE ALOT OF MALE FRIENDS..MAYBE THE WOMEN ARE WANTING YOU TOO..

9/9/09
5
(Edited by LJHeath73)

9/9/09
4
 Is that the best you got?? Really?? hahaha!

9/9/09
2
LJHeath73 wrote:
Maybe if you turn it backwards so I don't see it!

OK NEVER MIND NO CAP NO JERSEY,, NO TEE.....HMMM WHAT ELSE IS LEFT..... HEY I HAVE SOME COACHES SHORTS, WILL THAT WORK?????


9/9/09
0
(Edited by raiders1steve)
hello,
women are catty as all get out.I was talking to one single woman that i know from out of state(from a single social network-she moved out of state-we had talked online for awhile).she was always telling me all the Crap she has been through-almost every call....it got old.....i listened to her VENT....she has been through Alot.(i truly feel SORRY for her)...i recently went with two other platonic female friends to a country bar(TOO loud, smoke filled,the usual B.S.).I am glad that i met them...while we were going to the bar i got a call from a Friend of mine from the q here(out of state)....I ENJOY talking to her....i sent a email to the first woman and admitted that i was talking to another woman that i met on fan iq(just met her recently online-the out of state woman) I -wanted to be upfront and honest-i haven't heard from the first woman ever since.Why can;t a woman and a man be friends? p.s...imho online chat lines are a PAIN in the keister...too juvenile, whose sleeping with who, who lied to who, whose not talking to who, who is mad at another....one of the two women at the country bar hardly talked to me the whole night-and she went with myself and the other platonic lady friend to the country bar...she spent almost the whole time at the bar texting a lady friend of her's about what was going on...is that RUDE or what?

9/9/09
3
raiders1steve wrote:
hello,
women are catty as all get out.I was talking to one single woman that i know from out of state(from a single social network-she moved out of state-we had talked online for awhile).she was always telling me all the Crap she has been through-almost every call....it got old.....i listened to her VENT....she has been through Alot.(i truly feel SORRY for her)...i recently went with two other platonic female friends to a country bar(TOO loud, smoke filled,the usual B.S.).I am glad that i met them...while we were going to the bar i got a call from a Friend of mine from the q here(out of state)....I ENJOY talking to her....i sent a email to the first woman and admitted that i was talking to another woman that i met on fan iq(just met her recently online-the out of state woman) I -wanted to be upfront and honest-i haven't heard from the first woman ever since.Why can;t a woman and a man be friends? p.s...imho online chat lines are a PAIN in the keister...too juvenile, whose sleeping with who, who lied to who, whose not talking to who, who is mad at another....one of the two women at the country bar hardly talked to me the whole night-and she went with myself and the other platonic lady friend to the country bar...she spent almost the whole time at the bar texting a lady friend of her's about what was going on...is that RUDE or what?
They can... quit talkin pyscho's!

9/9/09
1
gr8freebird wrote:
because they are women......duh
your just simply stated.....a man

9/9/09
3
Honest is "I want to be upfront from the start.... I don't want anything serious right now amd also...so you know.... I do date and have friendships with  other women.  Should something serious start to develope, I will let you know and I hope you will give me that same courtisy." Then its up to her. If shes a woman that can't deal with it......you will know right off.  If you find later she has trouble with it....you have a premise established. That goes for you too.........be sure you can handle it if she does the same.  I cant talk for other women but with that out of the way....I don't want or need to know who your seeing or what your doing. I prefer you give me that same respect of privacy. But when your with me....and I am with you.....it is our time... lets not waist it.

9/9/09
1
BelieveN_Magic wrote:
Honest is "I want to be upfront from the start.... I don't want anything serious right now amd also...so you know.... I do date and have friendships with  other women.  Should something serious start to develope, I will let you know and I hope you will give me that same courtisy." Then its up to her. If shes a woman that can't deal with it......you will know right off.  If you find later she has trouble with it....you have a premise established. That goes for you too.........be sure you can handle it if she does the same.  I cant talk for other women but with that out of the way....I don't want or need to know who your seeing or what your doing. I prefer you give me that same respect of privacy. But when your with me....and I am with you.....it is our time... lets not waist it.
Huh......I am replying to my own comment....how funny is that. I just had too....my comment was in responce to ....raiders1 comment that concluded with " -wanted to be upfront and honest-i haven't heard from the first woman ever since.Why can;t a woman and a man be friends? "

9/9/09
5
Hey, women have sent me those, too!

9/9/09
1
Right on brother!  Can I hear an "Amen"?  Coming from where I am sitting that happens to be true. I am not saying I am all that and a bag of chips,  but you can be anything you want to be on line. Gotta watch those Texas boys you girls. You know how they say everything in Texas is bigger?, well so is the line of crap. Certain people from Ohio are exempt from that.lol

9/10/09
0
thank you all once again for ur views

9/10/09
1
1hosslover wrote:
Right on brother!  Can I hear an "Amen"?  Coming from where I am sitting that happens to be true. I am not saying I am all that and a bag of chips,  but you can be anything you want to be on line. Gotta watch those Texas boys you girls. You know how they say everything in Texas is bigger?, well so is the line of crap. Certain people from Ohio are exempt from that.lol
AMEN!

9/10/09
1
Well the 1's that aren't psychotic can anyway.

9/14/09
1
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
HMMMMM SO MUCH FOR THE COWBOYS FANS,,,, HMMMMM
Not all women....and on the other side of the coin, why do some guys not understand that it's ok to be friends!!

9/14/09
1
chanz274 wrote:
Not all women....and on the other side of the coin, why do some guys not understand that it's ok to be friends!!
sooooo, does that mean I can be your friend??

9/14/09
3
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
sooooo, does that mean I can be your friend??
absolutely

9/15/09
0
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
sooooo, does that mean I can be your friend??
They dont know how to be friends with guys. Its their ignorance

9/15/09
2
PEARL0269 wrote:
They dont know how to be friends with guys. Its their ignorance
I'm sorry you feel that way but I do have female friends that are considered friends.....hmmmmm,, we have a good relationship

9/15/09
4
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
I'm sorry you feel that way but I do have female friends that are considered friends.....hmmmmm,, we have a good relationship
I have more guy friends than girl friends and my guy friends are cool! We drink beer, yell and burp loudly! lol

9/15/09
2
heart_of_steele wrote:
I have more guy friends than girl friends and my guy friends are cool! We drink beer, yell and burp loudly! lol
and tell dirty jokes with out getting offended,, and cuzz at each other,,putting each other down, just one of the guys, only different genitals....sorry was that ok to say on here.....wink

9/15/09
5
heart_of_steele wrote:
I have more guy friends than girl friends and my guy friends are cool! We drink beer, yell and burp loudly! lol
Haha, yeah!!!!!!! And that's coming from a REAL Steelers chick! Girl, you know what we like!!!!!

9/15/09
1
LJHeath73 wrote:
Haha, yeah!!!!!!! And that's coming from a REAL Steelers chick! Girl, you know what we like!!!!!

Y'ALL LIKE BEER AND BURPING LOUD?? DAMMN CAN I COME OVER AND PARTY WITH Y'ALL...I BURP AND SOMETIMES, BURP A TUNE OUTLOUD.....TRY THAT LESLIE...LOL 


9/17/09
3
JUST_ALEXO wrote:

Y'ALL LIKE BEER AND BURPING LOUD?? DAMMN CAN I COME OVER AND PARTY WITH Y'ALL...I BURP AND SOMETIMES, BURP A TUNE OUTLOUD.....TRY THAT LESLIE...LOL 

hay not me

9/20/09
2
LJHeath73 wrote:
Haha, yeah!!!!!!! And that's coming from a REAL Steelers chick! Girl, you know what we like!!!!!
Hell yeah! Just about fell off the sofa watchin the superbowl omg! lol

10/8/09
0
hit 'em back!!

10/8/09
0
(Edited by JUST_ALEXO)
HMMMMM I SEE YOU'RE BACK........ WELLLL HELLLOOOOOOOO MISS CHANZ 

10/9/09
0
Ahhhh, really glad to be back in the office and hopefully back to some stability here!!!!

10/15/09
0
fran5518 wrote:
hay not me
I have wondered the same thing. There is a differents. Just me. Art

10/15/09
2
goffarart wrote:
I have wondered the same thing. There is a differents. Just me. Art
I don't think there has to be a difference. If ur looking for a friend and like 'em enough, oh well, stuff happens....doesn't it?

10/15/09
1
18packabs wrote:
I've got friends in low places........
.....and some of these friends are the truest!!!  Let's get real, for the most part, you know we love it...

10/15/09
0
JUST_ALEXO wrote:
how 'bout My cap...is that acceptable
Just the cap, dear!!

10/15/09
1
MKSHIZNIT wrote:
Me no need bank count numba, no soul mate nedda. I be gooood fwend 4 1 nite maybe 2 if u good. Wink, wink, goose, spank. LMFAO!
Let's be friends my lady! Ha ha

10/15/09
2
LJHeath73 wrote:
Doesn't this go both ways? I know I love to talk about myself... (big surprise, what woman doesn't?!) But that doesn't mean I am  trying to hook up with everyone I talk to! (Well, maybe the Steelers fans...)
Well, hey, I haven't decided upon an AFC team to call my favorite..... 

10/17/09
2
NorseHeathen wrote:
Well, hey, I haven't decided upon an AFC team to call my favorite..... 
Talk to NMboyzfan...
He has a new loyalty and I'm sure he would be more than happy to show you the light!

10/17/09
0
My Take on this... Because there feelings are protected all the time 
they feel we men are nothing but horn doggies .....
as per me No Worries, Relationships are Stressful people get selfish
we all go through this Pain. but, its VERY HARD WORK to have success.

10/22/09
0
(Edited by junebug29)

10/28/09
1
GOOD, AND IF U R REFERRING TO ME, U REMEMBER THIS!!!!

10/31/09
1
Seriously, is it not the natural order of things? Man and woman relationships are complicated to begin with and now you ladies expect men to make complex, and often on the spot, determinations about the future of a relationship based upon a single sentance... "Hello, nice to meet you." can mean Hello, nice to meet you or Hey, I'd like to get to know you - or in the purest of horndogs Hi, wanna have sex?
Thus I appreciate the scrutiny of women when it comes to men wanting to be friends... If you are someone who believes that men have only one thing on their minds then you proably have a shallow view of men, my opinion. On the other hand... I have NEVER had a woman approach me who wanted to be "just friends".  We might end up as friends but each and every one of them has wanted more.
Sounds arrogant... my apologies. The point is that it is not a one sided issue, it goes both ways.
Good Luck to all in their personal undertakings.

11/4/09
1
tammimichele wrote:
GOOD, AND IF U R REFERRING TO ME, U REMEMBER THIS!!!!
I AM SORRY NINA I WISH YOU THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

11/7/09
0
tammimichele wrote:
I AM SORRY NINA I WISH YOU THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey there Sweet Think... how you doing this evening. Buy you a drink?

11/17/09
0
BrianGLeonard wrote:
Hey there Sweet Think... how you doing this evening. Buy you a drink?
I DON'T DRINK, BUT THANKS!!!

11/17/09
1
Half of Charlie Brown's team were girls. 

11/19/09
0
rogercarver1960 wrote:
Half of Charlie Brown's team were girls. 
I love Charlie Brown!!

 
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