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8/24/08
Australian 10m Diving Gold Medalist Matthew Mitcham Is Gay, Which NBC Decides To Completely Ignore
NBC, Which Loves Informing You About Olympians' Relationships, Decides Not To Tell You About Matthew Mitcham's
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I'm not sure how many of you saw the men's 10m diving finals the other night, but it was pretty awesome. Chinese diver Zhou Luxin held what appeared to be an insurmountable lead even after botching his final dive.

It didn't look good for Australian Matthew Mitcham, who essentially needed to be perfect on his final dive to win gold. But Mitcham was, burying an incredibly difficult dive that left hardly a ripple on the water as he dove in.

It was, without question, one of the most clutch moments by any athlete you will ever see, anywhere.

But what also made the night unique is that Mitcham is the only openly gay male athlete in the Olympics. And despite NBC continually showing shots of Mitcham's Australian cheering section, which included Mitcham's partner, NBC never said a word about it.

Normally, I don't have a problem with that. There's not really any need to show an athlete's significant other during Olympic events, whether the athlete is gay, straight, or whatever.

But the problem is that NBC continually made a point to show many athletes' significant others during the Olympics, and mention what kind of a relationship they were in.

We heard about Misty May-Treanor being married to Marlins catcher Matt Treanor. We also heard about track athlete Sanya Richards' fiancee, Aaron Ross of the New York Giants. We heard about a love triangle between French and Italian swimmers and about Kerri Walsh losing her wedding ring in the sand during a match. And we even heard about non-spotlight athletes and their relationships. Katerina Emmons of the Czech Republic won the first Olympic gold of the Games in the women's 10m air rifle and was shown hugging and kissing her American husband who is her coach and a member of the U.S. Men's shooting team.

My point is this. NBC went out of its way to let us know about the relationships - even showing us kisses - of a number of bigtime and smalltime athletes. But all the athletes were significant in some way.

So was Mitcham. He prevented the Chinese from sweeping gold in diving. His story is truly one of the best of the Games.

But it was also important that we knew he was gay. That's because it is incredibly rare for any athlete to come out even after their playing days are over. And when an athlete is openly gay while competing, it not only deserves attention, it deserves celebration.

The reason why is because the sports world is, for the most part, an incredibly macho arena. And many people, including both athletes and fans, have the mistaken belief that you can't be gay and be an athlete. Letting viewers know that Mitcham is gay would've, in my mind, helped more people - athletes and fans - realize that any individual, regardless of their sexual orientation, can be a great competitor and an Olympic champion.

I know not everyone would have been pleased to hear about Mitcham's sexual orientation, and some would have argued that it would have been an invasion of his privacy to inform us of that information. But just think about this for a moment. Would the people that likely would have had those misgivings in hearing about Mitcham's sexual orientation have had the same reaction had Mitcham been straight? 

My guess is not at all.

NBC missed a chance last night to help break down barriers that desperately need to come down. And for that, they should be admonished.

As for Mitcham, hopefully his Olympic triumph can help us all - fans and athletes - become more tolerant of people of all sexual orientations in professional sports and in life.
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8/24/08
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For a Network that brought us "Will and Grace" for so many years this is really out of character

8/24/08
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For a Network that brought us "Will and Grace" for so many years this is really out of character

8/24/08
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Excellent article my friend.

8/24/08
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8/24/08
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Nice write up!

8/24/08
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I don't know. I'd hardly say it was "important" that we know he's gay. I mean, the relationships you mentioned all either invloved Americans or other Olympic athletes. That made them noteworthy to American sports fans. Also, Greg Louganis was a homosexual world-class diver, so Mitcham isn't ground-breaking or anything in that regard. A big "meh" for most people.

8/24/08
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I think this shows the incredible hypocrisy of NBC. They go out of their way to be politically correct in myriad ways and on myriad subjects, overtly so in most cases. So when they failed to mention that Matthew Mitchum is openly gay, I have to wonder why. I would agree with 100%'s claim that one reason is because the sports world is dominated by machismo, but I also wonder if they omitted that fact because of their not wanting to "offend" the Chinese who frown upon homosexuality?

8/24/08
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I DID watch the finals of diving and when David Boudia almost did a belly flop on his final dive, I dispaired that China WOULD sweep the diving gold.  Then along came Matthew with his perfect dive.  Now I am not a judge of diving, but even this dummy knew it was one helluva dive.  I did NOT know, however, that Matthew is gay.  I watched his tears of joy at winning and kept waiting for NBC to show a little bit of his family, as happened with EVERYONE ELSE! But, although they did point out "family and friends" they didn't identify - and I found that odd.  Now I know why and I am not in support of that.  If Matthew is openly gay, as you indicate, NBC should have respected his partner and identified him - not for US the viewer, but for Matthew and his partner (who was undoubtedly as proud as he could be)
Shame on you NBC

8/24/08
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Lika-Starr wrote:
Excellent article my friend.
I agree!  Nice to see that here on the Q gays and straights are treated with equal considerstion - praised when they do well and slammed when they act like an ass... it is a shame NBC didn't have the b***s to mention it - and they should have mentioned Louganis also - before he cracked his head on the board and they were "afraid" he would infect everyone.

We are just like everyone else - we just do things a little different in the bedroom than some people - not that that is a bad thing!

8/25/08
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australian mitcham is a good athletic. But what also made the night unique is that Mitcham is the only openly gay male athlete in the Olympics. And despite NBC continually showing shots of Mitcham's Australian cheering section, which included Mitcham's partner.
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8/26/08
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IlliniBob72 wrote:
I don't know. I'd hardly say it was "important" that we know he's gay. I mean, the relationships you mentioned all either invloved Americans or other Olympic athletes. That made them noteworthy to American sports fans. Also, Greg Louganis was a homosexual world-class diver, so Mitcham isn't ground-breaking or anything in that regard. A big "meh" for most people.
 First, people were disgusted with the very idea of acknowledging gays even existed.  Now, we have this example by IlliniBob72 of the feigned blasee attitude, "Oh, someone else gay did that already, so what's the point of acknowledgment?"  Well, the point of the article is that Matthew Mitchell was treated shabbily and differently from others.  Also, when Greg Louganis won diving gold he was still deeply in the closet.  Now we have an out and proud athlete with a spectacular accomplishment, and all this poster has to say is, "meh"?  So now we don't acknowledge the achievements of gays because it's boringly old hat.  That's still a form of homophobia and discrimination in the guise of world weary ennui.  Different tactic, same result.

8/26/08
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Blueboy1938 wrote:
 First, people were disgusted with the very idea of acknowledging gays even existed.  Now, we have this example by IlliniBob72 of the feigned blasee attitude, "Oh, someone else gay did that already, so what's the point of acknowledgment?"  Well, the point of the article is that Matthew Mitchell was treated shabbily and differently from others.  Also, when Greg Louganis won diving gold he was still deeply in the closet.  Now we have an out and proud athlete with a spectacular accomplishment, and all this poster has to say is, "meh"?  So now we don't acknowledge the achievements of gays because it's boringly old hat.  That's still a form of homophobia and discrimination in the guise of world weary ennui.  Different tactic, same result.
Wow! Settle down there, Sparky. I can acknowledge that he performed an outstanding feat by winning the gold medal in diving. If not caring if the guy is heterosexual, homosexual, or asexual somehow makes me a homophobe and discriminatory, so be it. That would be an incredibly unique way of defining it, but this is America and you have the right to say anything you want, regardless of how silly it is.

8/26/08
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