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If a homeless person or some other person approaches you for money what do you do?
| Closed on 08/31/08 at 05:00PM
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#1 | 130 days ago
irbe38 (+)

+12 thumbs up This is a tough question, because I am always concerned about my safety, and my surroundings. I like to help people, but not to just go out and by alcohol. On one occasion I came out of a Pet Store and a Man & his Dog were looking for a handout (The Man Was). He smelled of booze so I went into the Pet store and bought him food for his Dog and a dog dish, that way I knew it was better than giving him money to buy more booze with, I also bought him a Pepsi.
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#1 | 130 days ago
irbe38 (+)

+12 thumbs up This is a tough question, because I am always concerned about my safety, and my surroundings. I like to help people, but not to just go out and by alcohol. On one occasion I came out of a Pet Store and a Man & his Dog were looking for a handout (The Man Was). He smelled of booze so I went into the Pet store and bought him food for his Dog and a dog dish, that way I knew it was better than giving him money to buy more booze with, I also bought him a Pepsi.
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#2 | 130 days ago

+2 thumbs upI have given change before but not often because I always think about the alcohol thing too. I also saw something on tv once about how much money some panhandlers make on the streets in a month - more than a lot of gainfully employed people!

There have been times in the past that I've gone to the nearest fast food place and bought them a meal. One time I had just come out of Olive Garden and I was approached - it was my birthday and I was carrying the cake with me because I was too full to eat it after the meal of course...I gave the guy my cake and my ex-husband got mad at me.
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#3 | 130 days ago

I'm a sucker...I give them money.
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#4 | 130 days ago

(Edited by c9303000)
+7 thumbs upI tell them to go get a f**king job. 

My corporate HQ is right at the Metro stop where the VA has it's HQ.  I get approached all the time by guys holding "Homeless Veteran" signs.  How ignorant can you be to think that I am going to give money to a homeless vet soliciting in front of the VA.  Go inside the damn building and if you are a legit vet, you will get some help.

I understand circumstances come up in life.  When my parents divorced, my mom struggled and we were on public assistance for a few years.  If you have the time to sit around all day and beg for money, you have time to go to a public shelter, shower, shave, put on clean clothes, eat and go look for a JOB! 
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#5 | 130 days ago

+2 thumbs upI usually give a buck or so. I could be in their shoes someday.
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#6 | 130 days ago

+1 thumbs up

I will occassionally give money, depending on the person holding the sign.  I just gave a man $1 a few days ago... he had a nice smile, though he had no teeth... it was his face.  I spoke to him until the light turned green and I do believe I made his day by telling him he had a nice smile cuz it got bigger.  I have also purchased food and given it to them rather than give money. 

 

I used to work for a company that when we would have big sales meetings with catered meals at Corporate, after everyone was done eating, 2 of the Executives would pack up the food and drive to the area where the homeless would be and hand out the leftovers.  I thought this was such a great thing for them to do, rather than let the food go to waste.  These homeless people down in Phoenix would be blessed with some really good food too on those nights!!!!! 

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#7 | 130 days ago

(Edited by vindog)
I normally look the person over for a second or two and make my own determination upon whether or not I feel they are truly needy. Usually the guys who are younger and look like they can work, I give nothing to! But I will give money and/or food to those who (IMO) look truly in need of some assistance.
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#8 | 130 days ago

+1 thumbs up

I always look to give something but I am not that well off...I would never have the guts to panhandle but I hope to never be in that situation.  I would never give any homless person enough to buy alcohol, but if thats what they want to do then so be it.  It has to be tough to cope in those situations.

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#9 | 130 days ago

+4 thumbs upTell them to get off of their @$$es and get a JOB          J              O              B   JOB.
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#10 | 130 days ago

+3 thumbs up

There but for the grace of God go I.  I've been very close to their lot in life.  I usually give them a buck or so; so what if they spend it on booze; who I am to judge them.  If you've never been an alcoholic you don't understand the burning need for a drink; if you've never gone to a 165 places for a job and get turned down you don't understand the need to panhandle....Judge not lest ye be judged.

Your handing out a buck or so will bless you many times over IF you are humble about  it no matter what the person does with it (Karma if you like or Grace if you are a Christian).

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#11 | 130 days ago

Jess wrote:
I have given change before but not often because I always think about the alcohol thing too. I also saw something on tv once about how much money some panhandlers make on the streets in a month - more than a lot of gainfully employed people!

There have been times in the past that I've gone to the nearest fast food place and bought them a meal. One time I had just come out of Olive Garden and I was approached - it was my birthday and I was carrying the cake with me because I was too full to eat it after the meal of course...I gave the guy my cake and my ex-husband got mad at me.
+8 thumbs upGreat story about the cake thing!  Last year while visiting my Buddy in Detroit, he took my wife and I to Pizza Popolis (spelling), a really great Pizza place by the way. We stuffed ourselves and still had about half of a pizza leftover so we "doggy-bagged" it.  When we left, we were approached by a Homeless guy who appeared to be truly in need. We(my wife and I) gave him the pizza and $5 and my Buddy got mad because he thought the guy was "faking to make money". So, we decided to hang back and follow the guy, just to see where he was going. We watched him go into the 7/11 and buy 3 waters with the money- then he went down the alley and sat down with two other homeless guys- gave each one on them a water and shared the pizza with them. That one incident changed my friends view of homeless people forever..... Just a great story- I think!
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#12 | 130 days ago

+5 thumbs upI will never give a homeless person money. EVER. I would be more than happy to give them food, coffee, water, clothes, or whatever. But obviously they have made poor decisions, and that has something to do with their current situation. So I feel like if I give them money, that's just enabling them. They might use it for drugs, booze, or whatever. But if I buy them a sandwich, then I know they're getting food, which is good. That's actually a necessity.
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#13 | 130 days ago

ImmortallEyesz wrote:
Tell them to get off of their @$$es and get a JOB          J              O              B   JOB.
+3 thumbs up

Do you have a job and supportive family?  I've got a guy who lives in the projects that is in a Bible Study with us that is out of a job and has a new baby of one month.  He got laid off from the mill down here in SC about 3 years ago, he has no H.S. Education because he quit school to take care of his widowed mother with that great paying job at the mill 12 years ealier---now, no mill, no job, mom's dead, gotta wife, gotta baby, lost his home and he's living in a pretty crime infected state project.

In the last four months since he's been in the Bible Study we've convinced him to start working on his G.E.D., he's been out looking for a job(alone and through an agency) and he's filled out 165 applications as of last Tuesday night.  He's lost all his Unemployment insurance.  How would some of our Q'ers fair???? Hmmm.

   The good part of the story; today at church he told me he got a job at a small mill; he pays a ton for insurance but he needs it with the baby, BUT he has a secure paycheck!  AMEN!!!!

   He said he was one step away from going into a larger city down the road to panhandle if he didn't get a job.  How would I have handled his situation, how would you, how would many of ya'll???

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#14 | 130 days ago

vindog wrote:
I normally look the person over for a second or two and make my own determination upon whether or not I feel they are truly needy. Usually the guys who are younger and look like they can work, I give nothing to! But I will give money and/or food to those who (IMO) look truly in need of some assistance.
+2 thumbs upI'm sure you'll agree with me on this one...

If someone is young, able-bodied and in dire straights, there is a simple solution. Join the military. It is a great way to help someone get on their feet, and help them get an education, and at the very least, a stable job for 4 years.

It may not be the ideal situation for the military, but I think that it would be great for the individual, and I would much rather see them join the military, than see them beg for money, and/or whine about their hard times.
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#15 | 130 days ago

Michael wrote:

Do you have a job and supportive family?  I've got a guy who lives in the projects that is in a Bible Study with us that is out of a job and has a new baby of one month.  He got laid off from the mill down here in SC about 3 years ago, he has no H.S. Education because he quit school to take care of his widowed mother with that great paying job at the mill 12 years ealier---now, no mill, no job, mom's dead, gotta wife, gotta baby, lost his home and he's living in a pretty crime infected state project.

In the last four months since he's been in the Bible Study we've convinced him to start working on his G.E.D., he's been out looking for a job(alone and through an agency) and he's filled out 165 applications as of last Tuesday night.  He's lost all his Unemployment insurance.  How would some of our Q'ers fair???? Hmmm.

   The good part of the story; today at church he told me he got a job at a small mill; he pays a ton for insurance but he needs it with the baby, BUT he has a secure paycheck!  AMEN!!!!

   He said he was one step away from going into a larger city down the road to panhandle if he didn't get a job.  How would I have handled his situati