Who is to blame for non-satisfaction in love?

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Who is to blame for non-satisfaction in love? (Edited 10/21/09 07:03AM by customercare31)

Men blame women and women don't like getting pushed. Men feel that they go out in search of true love and satisfaction. Women too want the same freedom on similar grounds. Men blame women for spoiling men for if they would not offer, this problem would not exist. Women explain that they opt for it only to support themselves and use it as a means to end their misery. Men do not accept it and blame it for the whims and fancies of women needing that extra dough to be able to meet the ends for their such needs. Women do not like the highhandedness of the men for pressuring and subduing them and their desires. They feel that if men find it right to drink and gamble freely, why should they not get the liberation for their feelings too. This argument is endless and there seems to be no solution - it is each for his own.

What have you got to say in this regard. Who is to blame or should there be limitations defined to curb such untoward thinking? Are womens liberation groups right in their demands fully or you feel that they overexert themselves at times? Who is to blame for non-satisfaction in love? <span style="font-size:12px;">(Edited 10/21/09 07:03AM by customercare31)</span> Photo

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6%	a. Men are to blame.
12%	b. Women are to blame.
82%	c. Others.

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#13 \| 34 days ago janet011685 (+)	Usually it's both. However, sometimes it IS just one or the other. If one is dishonest about who they are or what they want from the get-go, that will cause problems in a relationship down the line (been there).
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#1 \| 34 days ago jhangianideepak (+)	Both are to be blamed, you can't clap with one hand. Others.
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#2 \| 34 days ago Everest8848 (+)	Women do need their rights but our forefathers were not wrong when they decided that men would work to provide and women look after house hold chores. This understanding kept on through the ages - but with time, women started realizing that they too needed to have certain freedom here and there. This gave rise to the Womens' Liberation Movement. But not all what they contend is right, nor all of it is even incorrect. It is indeed difficult to pin point who is at fault in what situation.
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#3 \| 34 days ago Cobragirl (+)	Firstly, who has the right to decide what moral behaviour is? This kind of prejudice is not welcome in any developed nation. For a nation to develop overall, first it has to overcome discrimination on the basis of gender.
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#4 \| 34 days ago customercare31 (+)	“Women are simultaneously victims of themselves as well as victims of men and are upholders of society by acting as mirrors to men”. It is difficult to blame either as neither would like it. Each has their shortcomings. Adjustments only would solve this delicate issue, I feel.
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#5 \| 34 days ago jayahnizam (+)	If you adhere to the values of cultural and religious behaviour, men and women could equally love each other. Women need their due rights but men always should lead the path. It cannot be equal rights because both differ in sex, outlook and strength whereas the men is stronger than women who always need the men's affection, love and protection. LOVE prevails in such people forever until one dies................God know better than me....... Others.
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#6 \| 34 days ago Fatal (+)	THE ONE THAT'S NOT SATISFYING IS TO BE BLAMED. Different couples have different problems and the man or lady is to be blamed. They should dicuss it and find a solution instead of blaming each other Others.
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#7 \| 34 days ago yruwet2 (+)	The woman needs to spice things up a little... maybe do them freaky things they use to, thats right, ya know what I like Women are to blame.
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#8 \| 34 days ago customercare31 (+)	Fights between couples start for no logical rhyme or reason. It is somewhat a reflex action. See this anecdote below: This is how the fight started! A man and a woman were asleep like two innocent babies, Suddenly, at 3 o'clock in the morning, a loud noise came from outside. The woman, sort of bewildered, jumped up from the bed and yelled at the man 'Holy Sh!t! That must be my husband!' So the guy quickly jumped out of the bed, scared and naked he jumped out the window like a crazy man. He smashed himself on the ground, ran through a thorn bush, then started to run as fast as he could to his car. A few minutes later he returned and went up to the bedroom and screamed at the woman 'I AM your husband, you $lut!' The woman yelled back, "Yeah??? Then why were you running.... you Son of a B!tch !!" And that folks.... that is how the fight started
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#9 \| 34 days ago Wordsmith (+)	You missed having the obvious choice - they are usually BOTH at fault. Some women think they can change men - when they can't change him to what they dreamed he could be, then they get vindicative. Some men think that once the chase is over, and they have their "catch", that their is no reason to be romantic anymore. They would be wrong. Unless love is cherished by both parties, tarnish takes over and ruins it. Others.
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#10 \| 34 days ago ohwell1219 (+)	It's 2009-Not the cave man days. Takes two to make a relationship work. Others.
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#11 \| 34 days ago Daniel_and_Becca (+)	It takes two always to make it work Others.
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#12 \| 34 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	The fact that people just get comfortable together causes the non satisfaction.. Therefore both are to blame Women are to blame.
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#13 \| 34 days ago janet011685 (+)	Usually it's both. However, sometimes it IS just one or the other. If one is dishonest about who they are or what they want from the get-go, that will cause problems in a relationship down the line (been there).
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#14 \| 34 days ago 18packabs (+)	That STUPID little CUPID guy........ Others.
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#15 \| 34 days ago bmcannon1 (+)	All i know is that all women should be barefoot and pregnant and made to rub there mans feet and call him God. Thats Love.
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#16 \| 34 days ago hotice (+)	when there is a love there is no BLAME GAME!
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#17 \| 34 days ago zzj000 (+)	bmcannon1 wrote: All i know is that all women should be barefoot and pregnant and made to rub there mans feet and call him God. Thats Love. I can hear Cubsgirl laughing and shouting "Yeah Right" as I type!
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#18 \| 34 days ago marcus_nyce (+)	What is up with those old pics!?! ...and I don't think anybody read your women's lib slant? LMAO!!
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#19 \| 34 days ago troiboi68 (+)	In the words of Rob Base- "It takes two to make a thing go right."
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#20 \| 34 days ago pinkcell2009 (+)	I believe with all my heart that both parties are to blame in this aspect. You both have to work on things that bother each other in the relationship. So when things go south, and the two parties are not willing to compromise and reach an agreement, it is both parties fault, not just one.
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#21 \| 34 days ago myrna_ventura (+)	I believe it takes two to Tango lol
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#22 \| 34 days ago rileyjames47 (+)	In today's complex world of relationships the real answer is to simplify a relationship and not over analyze it. Once you establish certain parameters in any relationship it is up to both to try and live up to doing their part. Blaming one or the other is fruitless, because while many times one is at fault and will not shoulder the responsibility that is where the real problems come from. If you cannot lay down a solid groundwork a relationship is bound to fail, just as a tree that has the deepest roots, it is the last one that will fall down.
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#23 \| 34 days ago mojorisin188 (+)	Okay, #1. I didnt ask to be liberated. But I do work. And I am not looking for any man to support me. I do not spend above my means. I pay my bills and take care of me and my puppy just fine.. the man would fit in for other things... love, affection,s*x, and other things that I can not get from my puppy. #2. Yes. both are to blame. You cant really blame guys for wanting freedom from a nagging chatterbox. And you cant really blame women wanting to try new things, have fun outside of the home, and to get a job and help her family. Thats all I have to say about that...
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#24 \| 34 days ago cuddles127017 (+)	I have a lot of feelings on this subject. Men kept women down for century's. It seems women have had to fight for every freedom they have gotten. I lived thru the 60s and women lib with the bra burning and all. I didn't ask to be liberated either. I heard on the news just last night that women still only make 78 cents to ever dollar a man does. They also said that even the men that said it was ok that the wife made more money than them were not really telling their true feelings and how unmanly it made them feel and the women in this study had rather make less than their husbands. Women who work outside the home and have children still do the majority of the household chores. Times have changed so much in the last 40 to 50 years, some for the better and some of it is not. With 50% divorce rate today and growing and divorce so easy and people dropping out when the going gets rough, or the wife gains weight or the girl at the office offers more excitement or the man, marriage doesn't stand much of a chance. There are lots of reasons why relationships go wrong. Too many people expect other people to make them happy, when men and women both have got to find their own happiness within the bounds of the relationship. And i for one believe that a child needs both parents and there is no better reason to stay together than for the children.(barring, abuse) Others.
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#25 \| 34 days ago johnsward66 (+)	troiboi68 wrote: In the words of Rob Base- "It takes two to make a thing go right." And only one to screw the pooch!
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#26 \| 34 days ago johnsward66 (+)	I think both have to be equally willing to give up their rights, or the relationship is doomed. One thing though, it can't always be the same one doing the self-sacrificing.
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#27 \| 34 days ago blondie45044 (+)	Past ideas that woman are less equal then men! The bigots that keep it going. Men and woman who want a satisying relationship work together as one, to make it work. Anything worth having is worth working for! Others.
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#28 \| 33 days ago COORG (+)	Other people creating problems. (men and woman are good under standing between each other in life) Others.
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#29 \| 33 days ago onel39 (+)	God created women from the side of man (the rib) not from the head to rule over nor from the foot to be walked upon and then He gave man his partner. In partnership there is compromise not blame. Blame comes in when men and women can't compromise but both want control. Its a choice and most on both sides make the wrong one.
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#30 \| 33 days ago lleedubb (+)	onel39 wrote: God created women from the side of man (the rib) not from the head to rule over nor from the foot to be walked upon and then He gave man his partner. In partnership there is compromise not blame. Blame comes in when men and women can't compromise but both want control. Its a choice and most on both sides make the wrong one. HALLELUJAH SISTAH!!!!!!!!
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#31 \| 33 days ago sih624601234 (+)	Well it depends on who you listen to, Men and Women need to work as a team is all walks of life, It is hard to say that it is one or another fault. But yes it does take 2 to make a fight, to have a talk with, to hold hands with,and to kiss and make love. If you look back in time Men were the head of the home but before any major decision was made the man and woman talked it out. Now a days who ever wants what just goes and gets it. There is no we it seems anymore it seems like yours and mine. Men and women need to get back to the basics and form a front against the world it seems. SO remember It takes 2 to fight and 2 to make up Others.
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#32 \| 33 days ago raja_starkglass (+)	Male and female are two beings and blame game does not change the life, but makes it more complicated, both have the freedom and duties to each other as man and wife, none are superior or inferior, but complementary to each other as they share the joys and sorrows of living and adjusting to each other in life to have better family life, economic freedom has come to female gender in recent times, with better education, jobs and skill sets, but the freedom is of mind, that is what makes life better. Others.
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#33 \| 33 days ago customercare31 (+)	ohwell1219 wrote: It's 2009-Not the cave man days. Takes two to make a relationship work. You mean to say that in the cave-man days, two were not needed to make their relationship work - is that it? There was more understanding in those days and each had his/her work underlined - this was the reason there was more peace then. But now - - - - - ; I do not need to spell it out - you have yourself answered it quite well - I feel !
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#34 \| 33 days ago Raj1869 (+)	It’s ok for man to beat wife, say 36 percent of Bangladeshi women Nine percent of them justify wife-bashing for refusal to have sex when they do not want to. They feel that denying sex is an acceptable reason for a man to beat up his wife, according to the fifth and latest Bangladesh Demographic and Health Survey (BDHS) 2007. Four percent of men who were surveyed also justified wife-beating for refusing sex. Eighteen percent women are forced to have sex by their husbands even if they do not want to. TILL THIS STOPS , I THINK IN MOST CASES IT'S MEN. Others.
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#35 \| 33 days ago imangela45 (+)	THEY JUST HAVE TO TELL EACH OTHER WHAT THEY WANT..I DON"T HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT.
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#36 \| 33 days ago anew4u2 (+)	janet011685 wrote: Usually it's both. However, sometimes it IS just one or the other. If one is dishonest about who they are or what they want from the get-go, that will cause problems in a relationship down the line (been there). i have to agree with her. Others.
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#37 \| 33 days ago REMMIN (+)	mojorisin188 wrote: Okay, #1. I didnt ask to be liberated. But I do work. And I am not looking for any man to support me. I do not spend above my means. I pay my bills and take care of me and my puppy just fine.. the man would fit in for other things... love, affection,s*x, and other things that I can not get from my puppy. #2. Yes. both are to blame. You cant really blame guys for wanting freedom from a nagging chatterbox. And you cant really blame women wanting to try new things, have fun outside of the home, and to get a job and help her family. Thats all I have to say about that... INTRESTING! FIRST I LIKE TO SAY LOVE AND SEX ARE TWO DIFFERNT THINGS. AND FEEL A LOT OF PEOPLE GET THOSE TWO MIX UP. I MY SELF LOVE SEX,BUT TO LOVE COMES TRUST, COMMINTMENT, PATIENTS. THERE IS NO ROOM FOR SELFISHNESS. I FIND THAT IN TODAY'S SOCIETY A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE BECOME SELFISH AND WOMEN MORE INDEPENDENT. ALSO BEING RECENTLY DIVORCE I FIND WOMEN THESE DAYS MORE SEXUALLY AGREESIVE. WITH THAT BEING SAID WOMEN ARE EXPLORING THEIR SEXUAILITY. HAVING SEX AS MEN DO AND NOT BECOMING EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED. BOTH ARE TO BLAME IF THEY DO NOT KNOW HOW TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN LOVE AND SEX. AND A THUMB RUL TO ALL IN A RELATION SHIP.." THERE IS MORE TO CHEATING THAN HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE"
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#38 \| 32 days ago auntwisa (+)	I think society is to blame because it mirrors unrealistic images to girls and women. Men too see these images and set expectations higher for women than they are willing to maintain. There is an upsurge of violence against women and children(70% of children who are victimized are young girls.) I for one fear where this world is headed in this regard.
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#39 \| 32 days ago SunnyDay (+)	I think the man/men are to blame - always - no matter what...
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#40 \| 31 days ago tinydevaiahk (+)	COORG wrote: Other people creating problems. (men and woman are good under standing between each other in life) h!!!
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#41 \| 31 days ago COORG (+)	(Edited by COORG) COORG wrote: Other people creating problems. (men and woman are good under standing between each other in life) bad think Others.

#42 \| 31 days ago dipstick (+)	I REALLY wanted to pick women, but then I forgot men allowed it to happen, so we're to be blamed too. But seriously, for the most part, I'd put it on women. Gender-lines used to be drawn, men and women had their roles, women were the housemakers/caretakers and men were the pamperers/protectors/breadwinners (atleast REAL men were), now you have women taking that role away and "share" the housemaker/caretaker responsibilities BUT still wanting/expecting to be pampered and protected. Roles and expectations have been mixed/blurred and for the most part, it's only changed with women. Men are simple little creatures, give us food, sex, and a little time to enjoy "toys" (tools, sports, trains, etc.) and we're good. Women are far more complex, I won't even attempt to act like I know/understand them, because I don't, and neither do they. Others.
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#43 \| 31 days ago 18packabs (+)	mojorisin188 wrote: Okay, #1. I didnt ask to be liberated. But I do work. And I am not looking for any man to support me. I do not spend above my means. I pay my bills and take care of me and my puppy just fine.. the man would fit in for other things... love, affection,s*x, and other things that I can not get from my puppy. #2. Yes. both are to blame. You cant really blame guys for wanting freedom from a nagging chatterbox. And you cant really blame women wanting to try new things, have fun outside of the home, and to get a job and help her family. Thats all I have to say about that... Hi, I a Man and willing to Fit in........ Others.
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#44 \| 30 days ago BrianGLeonard (+)	Personally, the problems start when a couple looks for something/someone to blame instead of tackling the real issue at hand and trying to solve it... honest communication is the key, blame is useless... except in court LOL Others.
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#45 \| 25 days ago normski77 (+)	Well,just as a few have said,it takes two to tango.u gotta work at a relationship,if u want it to last. Others.
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#46 \| 21 days ago Lorraine994 (+)	Both parties cause love is a two way thing, never about the one partner only
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#47 \| 8 days ago nmaidana (+)	tinydevaiahk wrote: h!!! how r u tiny ?????????????

#48 \| 8 days ago tinydevaiahk (+)	nmaidana wrote: how r u tiny ????????????? hi m fine re...........how abt u ?

#49 \| 8 days ago nmaidana (+)	nmaidana wrote: how r u tiny ????????????? had lunch

#50 \| 8 days ago nmaidana (+)	tinydevaiahk wrote: hi m fine re...........how abt u ? give reply na

#51 \| 8 days ago tinydevaiahk (+)	nmaidana wrote: give reply na r u bizi........

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#	Name	FanIQ	Answer (Red= You Disagreed)
33	Jahiegel 11/19/2009 11:53PM		Others.
32	vikings4us 11/09/2009 11:41AM		Others.
31	raj_b2in 11/04/2009 02:30AM		Men are to blame.
30	normski77 10/30/2009 08:49PM		Others.
29	BrianGLeonard 10/25/2009 03:11PM		Others.
28	qahira72 10/24/2009 11:58AM		Others.
27	dipstick 10/24/2009 05:44AM		Others.
26	ukcatfan383 10/23/2009 09:00AM		Others.
25	w_g_walters 10/22/2009 03:42PM		Women are to blame.
24	anew4u2 10/22/2009 03:15PM		Others.
23	Raj1869 10/22/2009 11:44AM		Others.
22	G Money 10/22/2009 11:40AM		Others.
21	sih624601234 10/22/2009 07:37AM		Others.
20	NorseHeathen 10/22/2009 12:58AM		Others.
19	COORG 10/22/2009 12:43AM		Others.
18	blondie45044 10/21/2009 11:43PM		Others.
17	Benzim 10/21/2009 11:24PM		Women are to blame.
16	spyder6665 10/21/2009 09:49PM		Others.
15	cuddles127017 10/21/2009 09:04PM		Others.
14	towsongirl12 10/21/2009 08:38PM		Others.
13	18packabs 10/21/2009 12:18PM		Others.
12	The_Real_Stoney 10/21/2009 10:45AM		Women are to blame.
11	Daniel_and_Becca 10/21/2009 10:10AM		Others.
10	cher_bert07 10/21/2009 09:12AM		Others.
9	ohwell1219 10/21/2009 09:03AM		Others.
8	Wordsmith 10/21/2009 08:56AM		Others.
7	yruwet2 10/21/2009 07:40AM		Women are to blame.
6	av5238 10/21/2009 07:31AM		Others.
5	Fatal 10/21/2009 07:22AM		Others.
4	jayahnizam 10/21/2009 07:17AM		Others.
3	raja_starkglass 10/21/2009 07:04AM		Others.
2	jhangianideepak 10/21/2009 07:03AM		Others.
1	Lram 10/21/2009 07:02AM		Men are to blame.

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