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If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be and why?
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#9 | 1613 days ago

When I was 8 my parents separated.  My mother told me that my dad didn't want to be around me because I was bad, and that I was the reason he was never home.  I believed her, in my 8 year old wisdom, and "hated" my father, refusing to speak with him for about 3 years.  It took my aunt and my grandfather's death to give me the bitchslap I needed to realise she was hurting and needing someone to blame, and that my dad loved me just as he always had.  It was too late, and out relationship was forever altered.  If i could go back to 8 years old with that 12 year old wisdom, I would in a heartbeat.   It's too late now, my dad passed just over a year ago.  Somehow I know he knows I love him more than anything, wherever he is.
  
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#1 | 1614 days ago

I wish i had never started smoking BECAUSE   it is not healthy.
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#2 | 1614 days ago

Let's Go blue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
#3 | 1614 days ago

I guess I would have started earlier in life realizing that not everything in life that I chose was correct. I would learn how to forgive myself.
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#4 | 1614 days ago

sorry  the truth i would not change anything cause i would not be the daughter the sister the lover or the friend i am today !  i love the BBW woman i am
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#5 | 1614 days ago
I_GARDNER (+)

I would have Kept working out!
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#6 | 1614 days ago

Wish I had more of a desire to read more #1 the BIBLE, and other self help books.
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#7 | 1614 days ago

Only ONE thing?   
I'll have to get back to you on that.
#8 | 1614 days ago

I'm 21.  I'm sure things I'd want to change now I'll end up appreciating in some way.
#9 | 1613 days ago

When I was 8 my parents separated.  My mother told me that my dad didn't want to be around me because I was bad, and that I was the reason he was never home.  I believed her, in my 8 year old wisdom, and "hated" my father, refusing to speak with him for about 3 years.  It took my aunt and my grandfather's death to give me the bitchslap I needed to realise she was hurting and needing someone to blame, and that my dad loved me just as he always had.  It was too late, and out relationship was forever altered.  If i could go back to 8 years old with that 12 year old wisdom, I would in a heartbeat.   It's too late now, my dad passed just over a year ago.  Somehow I know he knows I love him more than anything, wherever he is.
#10 | 1613 days ago
fasterhurry (+)

cuddles127017 wrote:
I wish i had never started smoking BECAUSE   it is not healthy.
I agree easier said than done, I only smoke 5 a day and still can't give it up.
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#11 | 1613 days ago

Debi_L wrote:
When I was 8 my parents separated.  My mother told me that my dad didn't want to be around me because I was bad, and that I was the reason he was never home.  I believed her, in my 8 year old wisdom, and "hated" my father, refusing to speak with him for about 3 years.  It took my aunt and my grandfather's death to give me the bitchslap I needed to realise she was hurting and needing someone to blame, and that my dad loved me just as he always had.  It was too late, and out relationship was forever altered.  If i could go back to 8 years old with that 12 year old wisdom, I would in a heartbeat.   It's too late now, my dad passed just over a year ago.  Somehow I know he knows I love him more than anything, wherever he is.
You're right Deb, your Dad knows that you love him and I think he knew back when you were 8 too. Some how they always know whether we realize it or not. If you feel it, then it's true.
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#12 | 1613 days ago

I don't want to change many things about myself....because I love myself as much as anything...

I want to change my short-temper...it has cost me more than anyone could think...
#13 | 1613 days ago

PJ88Fan wrote:
You're right Deb, your Dad knows that you love him and I think he knew back when you were 8 too. Some how they always know whether we realize it or not. If you feel it, then it's true.
Exactly lol..
#14 | 1613 days ago

 I m really happy about myself................
So I dont want to change anything right now about me but cant say about the future............
#15 | 1613 days ago
normski77 (+)

my personality?? to be less sarcastic,more tolerant,more willpower!,my appearance? to lose the excess weight i have at the moment!
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#16 | 1613 days ago
18packabs (+)

I would change the one thing that has bothered me for a long time. I would be more tolerant and forgiving. It has been easy for me to discount people throughout life as issues arose with them. I could have had even more friends and better relationships if I could/would have changed that.
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#17 | 1613 days ago
marytrammell31 (+)

I would like to be a little less compassionate. I let people run all over me and I trust everyone.. But then again that is the way my parents raised me.. I love people and trust them to much and that has gotten me into trouble.. I see the good in people where as my friends always look for the bad in people, and I could never understand that.. 
#18 | 1613 days ago
sc0ttm0 (+)

janet011685 wrote:
Only ONE thing?   
I'll have to get back to you on that.
I may have a suggestion or two....
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#19 | 1613 days ago

NOTHING, I AM LIKE I AM, WHO LOVE ME, LOVE ME, I HAVE MY PERSONALITY SINCE I HAVE 2 YEARS OLD, DO YOU THINK I WANT TO CHANGE ? NO, WHO LOVE ME, LOVE MY LITTLE BAD THINGS, IAND I LOVE MY FRIENDS, LIKE THEY ARE, PERFECTION IS BOLD, AND WHO WANT PERFECTION.-
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#20 | 1613 days ago
marytrammell31 (+)

marytrammell31 wrote:
I would like to be a little less compassionate. I let people run all over me and I trust everyone.. But then again that is the way my parents raised me.. I love people and trust them to much and that has gotten me into trouble.. I see the good in people where as my friends always look for the bad in people, and I could never understand that.. 
I know the feeling girl.. I seem to be a door mat for many people.. But the way I look at it is what comes around goes around.. They will get theirs one way or the other. Right?
#21 | 1613 days ago

I would have stayed in college instead of going to work when my father passed. 
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#22 | 1613 days ago

sc0ttm0 wrote:
I may have a suggestion or two....
Oh really now?  Do enlighten me. 
Tread carefully, though.   
#23 | 1613 days ago

ohwell_ wrote:
I would have stayed in college instead of going to work when my father passed. 
Remember: NOTHING Changes, if, NOTHING changes.
#24 | 1612 days ago

 I don't want to be this lazy. Punching the keyboard during my free time. Wish i have the drive and passion to be more adventurous. 
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#25 | 1612 days ago

I guess it all begins when your a child and it is always stated you only get one chance to be young, dont waste it trying to be old!!!!
#26 | 1612 days ago

The Numbers in my Bank Account
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#27 | 1612 days ago

Hey...taps you on the shoulder....what about me???  I care about what happens to you....
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#28 | 1602 days ago

mjc613 wrote:
Remember: NOTHING Changes, if, NOTHING changes.
Online school is what I am doing
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