FanIQ

You Might Like

Asked By: Beaze

Who liked it? 7

7	What Counts As Cheating? (Edited 05/23/10 09:05PM by Anthonyg7575) Read the Article: What Counts As Cheating Now? Very interesting article. What is your opinion? \| Closed on 06/23/10 at 05:00PM FanIQ Pts? No \| Locker Room, Relationships \| Multiple Choice Opinion Poll

69 Fans
	1. Is it cheating if the relationship isn't official? (i.e. you've had no conversation about being exclusive) (0 points)
19%	a. Yes
81%	b. No
	2. Is it cheating if you just sleep in the same bed? (but no phsyical contact) (0 points)
23%	a. Yes
46%	b. No
30%	c. Only if you cuddle or worse
	3. Is a girl kissing another straight girl cheating? (0 points)
33%	a. Yes
43%	b. No
19%	c. Only if it's more than one time
4%	d. I'm a girl and decline to answer
	4. Is it cheating to exchange steamy/flirty Facebook messages? (0 points)
55%	a. Yes
36%	b. No
9%	c. Only if it's with an ex
	5. Is it cheating to have a 'work spouse'? (0 points)
52%	a. Yes
30%	b. No
17%	c. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret
	6. 7. Is getting a private dance at a strip club cheating? (0 points)
29%	a. Yes
58%	b. No
13%	c. It is only acceptable if it's at a bachelor party

	&nbp;
TOP COMMENT
#20 \| 1253 days ago janet011685 (+)	As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	9 Was this comment...?


87 Comments \| Sorted by Most Recent First \| Red = You Disagreed
Vote for your favorite comments. Fans decide the Top Comment (3+ votes) and also hide poor quality comments (4+ votes).
#1 \| 1254 days ago blondie45044 (+)	Thoughts of cheating is cheating, so if your thinking it you mide as well have did it! 1. Yes 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	3 Was this comment...?
#2 \| 1254 days ago cuddles127017 (+)	As a man thinketh, so he is. Lust in the mind makes you as guilty as the act. Anything that takes away from your partner is cheating or put another way, anything you hear, see or do that should only be done with your s/o makes you guilty. 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	3 Was this comment...?
#3 \| 1254 days ago Kenne (+)	Looking at somebody else's test paper Taking steroids as a ball player Putting slow-performance drugs in your opponent's drink before a race Running an emissions test with somebody else's car (after bribing the worker)
	Was this comment...?
#4 \| 1254 days ago streetballer123 (+)	If you're gonna cheat, just stay single.
	2 Was this comment...?
#5 \| 1254 days ago Beaze (+)	cuddles127017 wrote: As a man thinketh, so he is. Lust in the mind makes you as guilty as the act. Anything that takes away from your partner is cheating or put another way, anything you hear, see or do that should only be done with your s/o makes you guilty. So just having a "I wonder what it would be like with her/him" thought is the same thing as cheating? 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#6 \| 1254 days ago mryrosie (+)	Don't know why this question even needs to be asked. HOWEVER (LOL), being older than most in room, you must know when flirting crosses the line. If you sleep with someone, that is the line for me. Other than that, it's all fun.........
	Was this comment...?
#7 \| 1254 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	penetration 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	3 Was this comment...?
#8 \| 1254 days ago Mr_Rogers (+)	blondie45044 wrote: Thoughts of cheating is cheating, so if your thinking it you mide as well have did it! I was expecting a funny face face at the end of that comment...becuase there is no way you wrote that comment with a straight face. 1. No 2. No 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#9 \| 1254 days ago 18packabs (+)	I say cheat on everybody, that way you can't be called predjudiced.... 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#10 \| 1254 days ago blondie45044 (+)	Mr_Rogers wrote: I was expecting a funny face face at the end of that comment...becuase there is no way you wrote that comment with a straight face. Hows them fantasy teams coming? 1. Yes 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	1 Was this comment...?
#11 \| 1253 days ago marcus_nyce (+)	I think it's really up to the cheatee and not the cheater to make that call. Having said that, foreign/spambot fake honies IM-holla atcha boy. I'm single-ish. 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#12 \| 1253 days ago nyrangers (+)	The_Real_Stoney wrote: penetration a great one word answer. That, or hardcore making out (or anything past that). Thoughts mean nothing, only doing, pun actually not intended. 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. It is only acceptable if it's at a bachelor party
	Was this comment...?
#13 \| 1253 days ago kantwistaye (+)	Some of these may not be cheating (like sleeping in same bed with someone of opposite sex, or I suppose same sex if you're gay/lesbian) but are they things someone should do if they're in a relationship? Why put yourself in that situation?
	3 Was this comment...?
#14 \| 1253 days ago raja_starkglass (+)	Apart from societal rules, there are rules in each of our mind as to what is right and what is wrong, in these questions, it is general queries, so general answers, but true answer is in our mind, we know what is cheating and what is not, for our conscious rings bells well, very strong soundless warning bells.! None other than ur mind hears the warning bells to have good sleep, not sleepless nights.! 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#15 \| 1253 days ago raja_starkglass (+)	cuddles127017 wrote: As a man thinketh, so he is. Lust in the mind makes you as guilty as the act. Anything that takes away from your partner is cheating or put another way, anything you hear, see or do that should only be done with your s/o makes you guilty. Applicable only to man......................................................................? 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#16 \| 1253 days ago raja_starkglass (+)	18packabs wrote: I say cheat on everybody, that way you can't be called predjudiced.... Now I do understand, why you are always known as cheater without prejudices...................................................! 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#17 \| 1253 days ago KatsMeow (+)	Everyone knows the feeling you get in your stomach when you are sneaking..if you are having any kind of secret relationship, sexual or otherwise, it is in fact cheating..if your S/O dosen't know who you are chatting with online, or sending flirts to, it's cheating..c'mon..no dancing around it..if its a secret its cheating..nuff said... 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	4 Was this comment...?
#18 \| 1253 days ago kobe_lova (+)	(Edited by kobe_lova) I didnt really no how to answer these. The second ques just led to more questions. Why are you in the same bed because if you just passed out thats not the same as intentionally spending the night with them? i flirt with people who flirt with me and my boyfriend is such a flirt in denial. I think if you get to the point where you are flirting with the intention of it becoming more eventually then you have already started cheating. I actually have more of a problem with emotional cheating than the physical stuff. I also will flip out if I find out that you spent money on another broad. Money should only be spent on me, you can spend her money on me for all I care, but you better not spend a dime and let me find out about it. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. No 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#19 \| 1253 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	nyrangers wrote: a great one word answer. That, or hardcore making out (or anything past that). Thoughts mean nothing, only doing, pun actually not intended. Thank you sir.. if you make it simple and to the point, it leaves no room for gray areas or interpretation 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#20 \| 1253 days ago janet011685 (+)	As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	9 Was this comment...?
#21 \| 1253 days ago Chief_aka_James (+)	kantwistaye wrote: Some of these may not be cheating (like sleeping in same bed with someone of opposite sex, or I suppose same sex if you're gay/lesbian) but are they things someone should do if they're in a relationship? Why put yourself in that situation? That's a reason why I said yes for 2. You shouldn't put yourself in a situation where you "had" to sleep in the same bed as an opposite (or in some cases: same) sex. The act itself of 'no physical contact' isn't cheating, just being in the bed I think would be - sleep on the floor, it can be comfy with enough pillows. 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#22 \| 1253 days ago Chief_aka_James (+)	janet011685 wrote: As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. Over/Under: Number of guys that go with the "oh bby i would never cheat on u" comments - 4.5 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	2 Was this comment...?
#23 \| 1253 days ago janet011685 (+)	Chief_aka_James wrote: Over/Under: Number of guys that go with the "oh bby i would never cheat on u" comments - 4.5 Shutup. lol 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#24 \| 1253 days ago marcus_nyce (+)	Chief_aka_James wrote: Over/Under: Number of guys that go with the "oh bby i would never cheat on u" comments - 4.5 I'm gonna take the over. And parlay it with the line on "Tiger Woods / High Horse comments." 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#25 \| 1253 days ago WhiteEagles (+)	janet011685 wrote: As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. What kind of idiot would cheat on you?Some men don't appreciate what they got!
	Was this comment...?
#26 \| 1253 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	technically, if you stammer out an incoherent rambling about what the definition of what IT is, you're just dodging a question 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#27 \| 1253 days ago RichyMcWiggleSr (+)	janet011685 wrote: As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. Agreed! Although I am a flirt! But it's mainly to be funny ................ hard to explain that. But I am OCD about that sort of thing!
	1 Was this comment...?
#28 \| 1253 days ago Chief_aka_James (+)	janet011685 wrote: Shutup. lol We'll count #27 as one. 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#29 \| 1253 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	Chief_aka_James wrote: Over/Under: Number of guys that go with the "oh bby i would never cheat on u" comments - 4.5 I'll take the under on that.. just because I prefer the "hi, how r u? u r sexy" line 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#30 \| 1253 days ago janet011685 (+)	Alright mofos, this is NOT a thread about me. Shutup already! Moving right along. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#31 \| 1253 days ago elevenbravo138again (+)	marcus_nyce wrote: I think it's really up to the cheatee and not the cheater to make that call. Having said that, foreign/spambot fake honies IM-holla atcha boy. I'm single-ish. Sadly I a fresh out of RESPECT! 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#32 \| 1253 days ago elevenbravo138again (+)	The_Real_Stoney wrote: penetration You need to write a relationship book like "I Hope the Serve Bloody Maries on the Q" 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#33 \| 1253 days ago Jess (+)	I think that it's cheating if you answer "yes" to either of these two questions: 1 - would it bother me if my spouse or SO were doing this with someone else? 2 - would it bother my spouse or SO to know I'm doing this? There's a respect issue there and people need to take their partner's feelings into consideration. If they don't care whether something would bother them or not and do it anyway, maybe they shouldn't be with that person. The questions above are hard to answer because every situation is different. For example - #4; how steamy/flirty? I just answered the questions as far as my own relationship is concerned..I can't answer for others. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. Yes
	2 Was this comment...?
#34 \| 1253 days ago Shiloh884 (+)	My answers are based on my relationship. We've had the discussion years ago. I have fallen asleep with another man (stricftly platonic) watching TV. Honest! 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#35 \| 1253 days ago Chief_aka_James (+)	Shiloh884 wrote: My answers are based on my relationship. We've had the discussion years ago. I have fallen asleep with another man (stricftly platonic) watching TV. Honest! Under or over the covers? 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#36 \| 1253 days ago Beaze (+)	What a digital age we live in. According to FanIQ, a man is better off going to the strip club to get a lap dance (32% cheating) then he is sending a steamy/flirty facebook message (54% cheating). 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#37 \| 1253 days ago kantwistaye (+)	Beaze wrote: What a digital age we live in. According to FanIQ, a man is better off going to the strip club to get a lap dance (32% cheating) then he is sending a steamy/flirty facebook message (54% cheating). He's also more likely to get caught doing the second.
	1 Was this comment...?
#38 \| 1253 days ago Jess (+)	kantwistaye wrote: He's also more likely to get caught doing the second. Well, and I think the facebook message thing is a little more personal - I know that sounds weird, but the lap dancer is a professional and it's not as serious because there's no emotional connection there. Not that I'd be ok with my husband doing either of those, but not all women are as weird as I am when it comes to that kind of stuff. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. Yes
	1 Was this comment...?
#39 \| 1253 days ago phatkat (+)	KatsMeow wrote: Everyone knows the feeling you get in your stomach when you are sneaking..if you are having any kind of secret relationship, sexual or otherwise, it is in fact cheating..if your S/O dosen't know who you are chatting with online, or sending flirts to, it's cheating..c'mon..no dancing around it..if its a secret its cheating..nuff said... heard that my fellow kat....sneaking around or flirting online is still a form of cheating if you are in any kind of relationship....=^_^=
	2 Was this comment...?
#40 \| 1253 days ago Beaze (+)	Jess wrote: Well, and I think the facebook message thing is a little more personal - I know that sounds weird, but the lap dancer is a professional and it's not as serious because there's no emotional connection there. Not that I'd be ok with my husband doing either of those, but not all women are as weird as I am when it comes to that kind of stuff. Not arguing, just wondering how facebook could be considered "personal" when it's viral, i.e. you're talking through a machine while you are anywhere from 100 yards to 10,000 miles away... While a lap dance isn't personal when the woman is less than a centimeter away, physically touching you and whispering the same things directly into your ear while performing the original instant message. I see your point though, facebook is more emotionally involved. I just think it's really weird. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#41 \| 1253 days ago Whammer (+)	My motto is eating aint cheating....LOL 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#42 \| 1253 days ago Jess (+)	Beaze wrote: Not arguing, just wondering how facebook could be considered "personal" when it's viral, i.e. you're talking through a machine while you are anywhere from 100 yards to 10,000 miles away... While a lap dance isn't personal when the woman is less than a centimeter away, physically touching you and whispering the same things directly into your ear while performing the original instant message. I see your point though, facebook is more emotionally involved. I just think it's really weird. I agree - I don't see how one person would be ok with one and not the other, but I do know women like that. I wouldn't be ok with either one of them, but there's more chance of an emotional and physical affair (people take trips to meet people they flirt with all the time on social networks) with the fb thing than there is with the professional lap dancer. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. Yes
	2 Was this comment...?
#43 \| 1252 days ago Azil (+)	blondie45044 wrote: Thoughts of cheating is cheating, so if your thinking it you mide as well have did it! very well said. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#44 \| 1252 days ago Azil (+)	agree. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#45 \| 1252 days ago jasonwrites (+)	Gee, from the tone of some of these comments, every attached male who views the Thong of the Day is cheating. Interesting. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Only if it's with an ex 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	2 Was this comment...?
#46 \| 1252 days ago BlondeKitten (+)	My motto......"You can look, but you can't touch!" 1. No 2. Yes 3. I'm a girl and decline to answer 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	1 Was this comment...?
#47 \| 1252 days ago pokkirivimalraja (+)	WHAT A SEXY HIPPPPPPPPPPP,,,,,
	Was this comment...?
#48 \| 1252 days ago janet011685 (+)	"Lap dances can lead to cheating as well though." Ha! Please ... only in porn and late-night Cinemax "movies". 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#49 \| 1252 days ago kyleemerritt (+)	RichyMcWiggleSr wrote: Agreed! Although I am a flirt! But it's mainly to be funny ................ hard to explain that. But I am OCD about that sort of thing! Well according to Jag Attorneys , I learned cyber or phone sex does not constitute cheating . They proved in court that unless its physical it is NOT CHEATING . ...Go figure
	1 Was this comment...?
#50 \| 1252 days ago bigbueh64 (+)	omly Ex Pres. Clinton is excempt from any variation 1. No 2. Yes 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#51 \| 1252 days ago tonnie1892 (+)	cheating is cheating what varies is the degree of cheating...admiring is allowed but adm...iiiriiinnngggg is not...
	Was this comment...?
#52 \| 1252 days ago kobe_lova (+)	janet011685 wrote: As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ...Really? You have never flirted with anybody while in a relationship? Never? I am finding that hard to believe...and every time i see matt damon, matthew mcconaughey, and right now lance gross, I have the deisre to cheat. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. No 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#53 \| 1252 days ago janet011685 (+)	kobe_lova wrote: I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ...Really? You have never flirted with anybody while in a relationship? Never? I am finding that hard to believe...and every time i see matt damon, matthew mcconaughey, and right now lance gross, I have the deisre to cheat. Nope, not once. Have I thought a guy was hot even though I was in a relationship? Sure. But that doesn't mean I'd want to go out and cheat on my significant other with one of them. To me, no man looks as good as a strong, stable, loving relationship feels. Now I'm out before you people start thinking this sappy mumbo-jumbo makes me less of a frigid bitch. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	2 Was this comment...?
#54 \| 1252 days ago superman423 (+)	janet011685 wrote: Nope, not once. Have I thought a guy was hot even though I was in a relationship? Sure. But that doesn't mean I'd want to go out and cheat on my significant other with one of them. To me, no man looks as good as a strong, stable, loving relationship feels. Now I'm out before you people start thinking this sappy mumbo-jumbo makes me less of a frigid bitch. what i see as cheating is a kiss or screwing but looking not so much the way i see it you can check out the menu all you want while your in a relationship just dont order
	2 Was this comment...?
#55 \| 1252 days ago kobe_lova (+)	Beaze wrote: Not arguing, just wondering how facebook could be considered "personal" when it's viral, i.e. you're talking through a machine while you are anywhere from 100 yards to 10,000 miles away... While a lap dance isn't personal when the woman is less than a centimeter away, physically touching you and whispering the same things directly into your ear while performing the original instant message. I see your point though, facebook is more emotionally involved. I just think it's really weird. the difference is that facebook is not a bunch of random people you met online. These are usually friends or acquaintances that you already knew so it's automatically more personal because it's not quite as harmless when you have an actual connection. and as long as the lap dance is given in a strip club by an actual stripper and not in the "champagne room". I have no problem with that. I've been to the strip club and believe me, those chicks arent thinking about anything more than their money. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. No 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#56 \| 1252 days ago kobe_lova (+)	janet011685 wrote: Nope, not once. Have I thought a guy was hot even though I was in a relationship? Sure. But that doesn't mean I'd want to go out and cheat on my significant other with one of them. To me, no man looks as good as a strong, stable, loving relationship feels. Now I'm out before you people start thinking this sappy mumbo-jumbo makes me less of a frigid bitch. too late babe 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. No 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#57 \| 1252 days ago Beaze (+)	janet011685 wrote: "Lap dances can lead to cheating as well though." Ha! Please ... only in porn and late-night Cinemax "movies". LOL, you've obviously never been to a strip club. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#58 \| 1252 days ago janet011685 (+)	Beaze wrote: LOL, you've obviously never been to a strip club. You'd be surprised. Actually, I was taking it less in the "Champagne/VIP room" context and more in the "it started with a lap dance, but then she fell for the customer a la 'Showgirls', or any Skinemax movie on after midnight" kind of context. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#59 \| 1252 days ago Beaze (+)	janet011685 wrote: You'd be surprised. Actually, I was taking it less in the "Champagne/VIP room" context and more in the "it started with a lap dance, but then she fell for the customer a la 'Showgirls', or any Skinemax movie on after midnight" kind of context. Yes, every guy believes, "wow she's really into me. She's listening to every word I say, she's laughing at my jokes, she cares...she really cares! I'm going to get her number!" Never gonna happen. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#60 \| 1252 days ago janet011685 (+)	Beaze wrote: Yes, every guy believes, "wow she's really into me. She's listening to every word I say, she's laughing at my jokes, she cares...she really cares! I'm going to get her number!" Never gonna happen. Exactly. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#61 \| 1252 days ago Chief_aka_James (+)	Beaze wrote: Yes, every guy believes, "wow she's really into me. She's listening to every word I say, she's laughing at my jokes, she cares...she really cares! I'm going to get her number!" Never gonna happen. Look at post #52 again, I think you'll realize you two are agreeing completely.. 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#62 \| 1252 days ago ssgmaynard220 (+)	kyleemerritt wrote: Well according to Jag Attorneys , I learned cyber or phone sex does not constitute cheating . They proved in court that unless its physical it is NOT CHEATING . ...Go figure I am torn...yes it must be physical to be considered cheating....but if the content of the text includes such nature then the act has happened...and therfore it is evidence...probable cause...if its a hello...then innocent.
	1 Was this comment...?
#63 \| 1252 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	Beaze wrote: Yes, every guy believes, "wow she's really into me. She's listening to every word I say, she's laughing at my jokes, she cares...she really cares! I'm going to get her number!" Never gonna happen. Unless you're at Centerfolds in Aurora, CO 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#64 \| 1252 days ago janet011685 (+)	(Edited by janet011685) The_Real_Stoney wrote: Unless you're at Centerfolds in Aurora, CO And oddly enough, I'm not even slightly surprised that you know this. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#65 \| 1252 days ago Chief_aka_James (+)	Yes, no doubt. But with the same girl as the professional? No, not likely at all. 1. No 2. Yes 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#66 \| 1252 days ago The_Real_Stoney (+)	janet011685 wrote: And oddly enough, I'm not even slightly surprised that you know this. it's part of the greatest/funniest strip club story ever 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#67 \| 1252 days ago janet011685 (+)	Chief_aka_James wrote: Yes, no doubt. But with the same girl as the professional? No, not likely at all. (Unless they paid extra for it. Gross.) 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#68 \| 1251 days ago brad_u_s (+)	Chat rooms lead to what you want them too . If you get carried away with words than yes it leads to trouble . You have to decide what your limits are . You can find fake or real in chat rooms . If they want something from you they are fake .
	Was this comment...?
#69 \| 1250 days ago phatkat (+)	I agree with that..... for it is what the mind wants and the heart desires! LUST!!! one of the 7 sins....yup!
	1 Was this comment...?
#70 \| 1249 days ago noti4 (+)	WHAT CAN I SAY, I NEVER USE THE CHAT, ONLY FOR ME ARE ALL FRIENDS .- BUT I THINK THE Q MUST TO KNOW WHEN THEY CROSS THE LINE .-
	Was this comment...?
#71 \| 1249 days ago raja_starkglass (+)	(Edited by raja_starkglass) Fan Iq is a sports site, american origin, with fan base from all the nations, who are fans of the games and sports. At the start, many fans of America and Canada as also latin american nations joined the fun, later with the american games, the soccer and football gave the European touch to the site. Cricket brought in millions of fans from Asia, Australia, NZ and South Africa, being the cricket playing nations.2005 to 2008 saw the steady increase in Qers, more so, in 2008 with 2009 peaking it all time high, but moderators perhaps had not anticipated this floods of fans, so also the administrators, thus a situation where the understanding of the fans with american games increased but the same can not be said of fans from America. Cheating just as good behaviour are concurrent in life, but sense of fair play keeps the site clean, thanks to the efforts of all those who love the FANIQ. 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. Yes 6. Yes
	Was this comment...?
#72 \| 1249 days ago 18packabs (+)	if you put your ATM card in another ATM you are cheating, plain and simple. 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. No 6. No
	2 Was this comment...?
#73 \| 1249 days ago raja_starkglass (+)	18packabs wrote: if you put your ATM card in another ATM you are cheating, plain and simple. Visa and mastercards are honored in all ATMs by arrangements. ! 1. No 2. No 3. No 4. No 5. Yes 6. Yes
	1 Was this comment...?
#74 \| 1249 days ago brad_u_s (+)	janet011685 wrote: As someone who's been cheated on (repeatedly ), I have a LOW tolerance for any type of physical/emotional contact between anyone I might potentially be dating (I know, I giggled as I typed it, too) and another person that is NOT me. But I apply the same strict rules to myself. When I've been in relationships, I've never had an ounce of desire to cheat on the person I was with, or to flirt with anyone else (except for, jokingly, with gay men and other girls) ... if I ever feel that need when in a relationship, I'm in the wrong relationship. Man , He must have been a Moron
	Was this comment...?
#75 \| 1249 days ago brad_u_s (+)	janet011685 wrote: Exactly. Please , Not every guy is a Dog . In 34 yrs of marriage , not once did I ever cheat , I was on the road for weeks at a time and had many offers . I considered my family came first and I was all work . I could not same the same for my x. So you see , it's not just men , but women too. It's how you value others that makes you who and what you are .
	1 Was this comment...?
#76 \| 1249 days ago jasonwrites (+)	The_Real_Stoney wrote: it's part of the greatest/funniest strip club story ever We need to hear it. Or at least I'll visit this Centerfolds and find out. I bet if I take my wife she'll get her number. 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Only if it's with an ex 5. Only if the lunches/etc... are kept secret 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#77 \| 1249 days ago Sporz_Freek (+)	noti4 wrote: WHAT CAN I SAY, I NEVER USE THE CHAT, ONLY FOR ME ARE ALL FRIENDS .- BUT I THINK THE Q MUST TO KNOW WHEN THEY CROSS THE LINE .- Chat is no good. It gets people in trouble. I found out at Talk City, when it still was on the Internet. I think it's gone now.
	Was this comment...?
#78 \| 1249 days ago Sherry63 (+)	18packabs wrote: if you put your ATM card in another ATM you are cheating, plain and simple. You are so bad lol
	1 Was this comment...?
#79 \| 1248 days ago noti4 (+)	noti4 wrote: WHAT CAN I SAY, I NEVER USE THE CHAT, ONLY FOR ME ARE ALL FRIENDS .- BUT I THINK THE Q MUST TO KNOW WHEN THEY CROSS THE LINE .- YES, I NEVER CHAT , ONLY WHITH MY SISTER OR FRIENDS, BUT I PREFER THE FHONE, INTERNET IS COLD TO EXPRESS YOUR FEELING .-
	Was this comment...?
#80 \| 1247 days ago phatkat (+)	jasonwrites wrote: Gee, from the tone of some of these comments, every attached male who views the Thong of the Day is cheating. Interesting. lmfaoooooo! too funny....hahahaha!
	1 Was this comment...?
#81 \| 1245 days ago brad_u_s (+)	janet011685 wrote: Alright mofos, this is NOT a thread about me. Shutup already! Moving right along. If you sleep with Dogs you wake up with fleas . If you sleep with Tiger you wake up with Fleas and a few million Bucks to hide the itch so no one will know you slept with him . Oh wait , they call him Tiger , He may look like tiger , he may haul in people like a tiger at a zoo, But all in all , he's a Dog . He's got allot of Balls . I wonder if he cleans them like most Dogs ! lol
	1 Was this comment...?
#82 \| 1244 days ago phatkat (+)	Sherry63 wrote: You are so bad lol depends on what you want out of the other ATM machine...they are not all the same...some charge too much service fees and some are free of charge.....lol!
	Was this comment...?
#83 \| 1244 days ago Dooney (+)	phatkat wrote: depends on what you want out of the other ATM machine...they are not all the same...some charge too much service fees and some are free of charge.....lol! Ah, listen to the learned one! LOL! Spot on! And some ATM's have nice, crisp dollars as well...;-)
	Was this comment...?
#84 \| 1229 days ago vindog (+)	There is a HUGE difference between flirting and cheating and if you have to ask what is acceptable and what is NOT acceptable in a Relationship- then you really don't need to be in a relationship. Those of us who are in relationships know exactly what I am talking about! 1. No 2. Only if you cuddle or worse 3. Only if it's more than one time 4. Yes 5. Yes 6. No
	1 Was this comment...?
#85 \| 1229 days ago phatkat (+)	vindog wrote: There is a HUGE difference between flirting and cheating and if you have to ask what is acceptable and what is NOT acceptable in a Relationship- then you really don't need to be in a relationship. Those of us who are in relationships know exactly what I am talking about! that's what i was trying to say earlier in this poll....IF YOU ARE IN ANY KIND OF RELATIONSHIP, whether it be marriage or dating...and you are flirting online or in person...YOU ARE CHEATING!!!
	1 Was this comment...?
#86 \| 1098 days ago RespectTheStar (+)	hmm....being someone who has been cheated on....more then once....I apply one simple rule. I dont do it if i wouldnt want it done to me. That being said, FLIRTING is not cheating. Me and one of my exs used to go to the bar together and see who could pick someone up quicker(yea....kinda twisted i know).....because at the end of the day....i knew she was going home with me and only me. 1. Yes 2. No 3. Yes 4. Yes 5. No 6. No
	Was this comment...?
#87 \| 1098 days ago NorseHeathen (+)	Forgetting to turn on the video camera so my wife can enjoy it later.....I get in trouble if I don't share...
	Was this comment...?

Post a Comment Already a user? Sign in here

Join FanIQ - It's Free

FanIQ is the ultimate free community for sports fans.

•Talk sports with fans from all over - 1,649,417+ Comments

•Track your game picks - 38,670,182,382+ Sports Predictions

•Prove you know sports - 116,275+ Trivia Questions

•Find fans of your teams - 11,453,110+ New Friends

Start here >> Select your favorite teams. It's free.

Polls You Might Like
	F/E 5/20 Asked by kobe_lova \| Locker Room \| 1 questions asked Yesterday 10 opinions \| 26 comments \| Last by kobe_lova
	Should Faniq make A MOBILE APP for this site and IF SO would you use it ? Asked by irmacourt \| Locker Room, FanIQ \| 1 questions asked 04/19/12 39 opinions \| 28 comments \| Last by PresEmart
	2-09 Fan IQ Year in Review; 'You Might Think' it's 1984 Asked by hclcdestin \| Locker Room, FanIQ \| 6 questions asked 02/08/13 162 opinions \| 17 comments \| Last by PresEmart
	Music Storytellers - JETHRO TULL Asked by Nick__ \| Locker Room, Music \| 1 questions asked Yesterday 8 opinions \| 3 comments \| Last by ms_hippie_queen
	Clownie PresentsThe Thong Of The Day5/20 Asked by Michael G \| Locker Room \| 1 questions asked Yesterday 18 opinions \| 4 comments \| Last by woody050681

Answer Breakdown

Answers are sorted in reverse chronological order

			0 pts	0 pts	0 pts	0 pts	0 pts	0 pts
#	Name	FanIQ	Q1	Q2	Q3	Q4	Q5	Q6
69	Jahiegel 06/20/2010 04:24AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	No	Yes	Yes	No
68	richard_cranium 06/15/2010 11:59PM		No	No	No	Yes	Yes	No
67	Fatal 06/03/2010 07:37AM		Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
66	Anthonyg7575 05/23/2010 09:09PM		No	No	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
65	knucklebuster 05/23/2010 12:52PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	No	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
64	sin1919 05/19/2010 09:54PM		Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
63	RespectTheStar 05/19/2010 09:40PM		Yes	No	Yes	Yes	No	No
62	vanvorceguy 05/03/2010 12:23AM		Yes	No	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Yes	Yes
61	Lady_P 04/29/2010 09:28AM		No	No	No	No	No	No
60	vindog 01/08/2010 12:09PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Yes	No
59	maddhatter6691 01/08/2010 12:02PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
58	towsongirl12 01/03/2010 03:46AM		No	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
57	G Money 01/03/2010 02:29AM		No	No	No	No	Only if the lunches/etc.....	It is only acceptable if ...
56	ssusiej46 12/29/2009 04:05AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Yes	Yes	Only if the lunches/etc.....	Yes
55	johnnybegood128110 12/28/2009 12:26PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Yes	No	Only if the lunches/etc.....	It is only acceptable if ...
54	ohwell_ 12/28/2009 10:14AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Yes	Yes	Yes	No
53	sc0ttm0 12/28/2009 01:14AM		No	No	No	Yes	No	No
52	elizeerasmus7 12/22/2009 12:12AM		No	Yes	Yes	Only if it's with an ex	Yes	Yes
51	BLKWOLF 12/21/2009 12:58PM		No	No	Only if it's more than on...	No	No	No
50	hwsteelers 12/20/2009 07:16AM		Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
49	NMboyzfan 12/18/2009 12:57PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
48	alexanderlawson 12/17/2009 01:22AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	No	Yes	It is only acceptable if ...
47	Raider76 12/16/2009 12:43PM		No	No	No	Yes	Yes	No
46	johnshirey54 12/16/2009 12:34PM		Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
45	Jizmaglobin 12/16/2009 09:16AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	No	No	Yes	No
44	TDub 12/16/2009 08:52AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	Only if it's with an ex	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
43	bpa4bes 12/16/2009 08:42AM		No	No	No	No	No	No
42	bigbueh64 12/16/2009 06:43AM		No	Yes	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Yes	Yes
41	sbello223 12/16/2009 05:20AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	No	Only if it's with an ex	Yes	No
40	Frankie_D 12/16/2009 04:52AM		No	Yes	Yes	No	Yes	No
39	mikemor62 12/16/2009 03:09AM		No	No	No	Yes	Yes	No
38	BlondeKitten 12/16/2009 02:29AM		No	Yes	I'm a girl and decline to...	Yes	Yes	Yes
37	jasonwrites 12/16/2009 01:46AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	Only if it's with an ex	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
36	Azil 12/16/2009 12:59AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Yes	Yes
35	billiePAL1998 12/15/2009 08:17PM		Yes	No	I'm a girl and decline to...	Yes	Yes	No
34	lavabuster 12/15/2009 07:36PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	No	Yes	It is only acceptable if ...
33	brucek863 12/15/2009 07:28PM		Yes	Yes	No	Yes	No	No
32	darrell223 12/15/2009 06:45PM		No	No	No	Yes	Yes	No
31	Whammer 12/15/2009 06:32PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
30	craign123 12/15/2009 05:43PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	No	No	Yes	No
29	tiremanhunt 12/15/2009 05:27PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	No	Yes	Yes	No
28	Shiloh884 12/15/2009 05:14PM		No	No	No	No	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
27	Jess 12/15/2009 05:05PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Yes	Yes	Only if the lunches/etc.....	Yes
26	juliemarie_84 12/15/2009 04:55PM		No	No	I'm a girl and decline to...	Only if it's with an ex	Yes	It is only acceptable if ...
25	elevenbravo138again 12/15/2009 04:47PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
24	Chief_aka_James 12/15/2009 03:41PM		No	Yes	Yes	Yes	No	No
23	janet011685 12/15/2009 03:27PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Yes	Yes	No	No
22	alainpeartree 12/15/2009 01:49PM		No	No	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
21	ApopCane 12/15/2009 10:27AM		No	No	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
20	Jeff_P 12/15/2009 10:26AM		Yes	Yes	No	No	No	No
19	kobe_lova 12/15/2009 09:24AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	No	Yes	No	No
18	KatsMeow 12/15/2009 08:05AM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
17	xtra_ill 12/15/2009 04:21AM		Yes	Yes	No	Yes	Yes	Yes
16	raja_starkglass 12/15/2009 03:33AM		No	No	No	No	Yes	Yes
15	nyrangers 12/15/2009 02:20AM		No	No	No	No	No	It is only acceptable if ...
14	jeetkaybee 12/15/2009 02:04AM		Yes	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Yes	No	Yes	Yes
13	marcus_nyce 12/15/2009 12:40AM		No	No	No	No	No	No
12	icfeet 12/14/2009 11:38PM		No	No	No	Only if it's with an ex	Only if the lunches/etc.....	It is only acceptable if ...
11	ReincarnationIV 12/14/2009 11:04PM		Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
10	Cali_Kat 12/14/2009 10:16PM		No	No	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Yes	It is only acceptable if ...
9	18packabs 12/14/2009 10:11PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
8	Mr_Rogers 12/14/2009 10:10PM		No	No	Yes	Yes	No	No
7	The_Real_Stoney 12/14/2009 10:04PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
6	danny_n94 12/14/2009 08:55PM		No	No	No	No	No	No
5	indis 12/14/2009 06:39PM		No	No	No	No	Yes	It is only acceptable if ...
4	Dream_Machine 12/14/2009 06:39PM		No	No	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
3	cuddles127017 12/14/2009 06:37PM		No	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes
2	Beaze 12/14/2009 06:33PM		No	Only if you cuddle or wor...	Only if it's more than on...	Yes	Only if the lunches/etc.....	No
1	blondie45044 12/14/2009 06:17PM		Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes	Yes