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"WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE"!!!!

This is a question for all of you that are divorced. it seems that no matter how long one is divorced, we still  have  those  issues. how long have you been divorced? do you still fight? Does the other one try to controll the other? when is it enough already.......? What a sad world we live in, if the only company we have is one's self pitty and anger. ...!!!!  A few words of encoragement. "Don't let your past determine your destiny or influence your self-image".

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#1 | 1701 days ago

your very addameny about this issue .  hey divorce sucks < it infects children as well as pets .
  You are right the poast does not equate the future
#2 | 1701 days ago

9 years
Yes  (text fight- he won't speak to me unless he is trying to tell what I am going to do)
Yes
I wish I knew



Don't try and have a rational conversation with irrational people
#3 | 1701 days ago

Almost 3 years
No we don't fight.
We don't control each other.
IDK when it is enough? We actually get along okay, its not like we are best friends or anything but our kids matter more to us than any other petty things.
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#4 | 1700 days ago
Cop4Cubs (+)

I have been divorced and it stinks. The "Ex"  ran off with our (2)kids 6 states away an remarried. Saw my kids 3 times a year for about 13 years. Bitter and angry hell Yes !  Talk to her- only when necessary. Cant stand her and could care less about her. Time to move on ..
#5 | 1700 days ago
lovinmyjeffgordon (+)

Cop4Cubs wrote:
I have been divorced and it stinks. The "Ex"  ran off with our (2)kids 6 states away an remarried. Saw my kids 3 times a year for about 13 years. Bitter and angry hell Yes !  Talk to her- only when necessary. Cant stand her and could care less about her. Time to move on ..
I am so very sorry that has happened to you
#6 | 1700 days ago
Cop4Cubs (+)

Cop4Cubs wrote:
I have been divorced and it stinks. The "Ex"  ran off with our (2)kids 6 states away an remarried. Saw my kids 3 times a year for about 13 years. Bitter and angry hell Yes !  Talk to her- only when necessary. Cant stand her and could care less about her. Time to move on ..
Thanks KC it hurt alot of people but she never till this day realizes this . Kinda sad ..
#7 | 1700 days ago

Cop4Cubs wrote:
Thanks KC it hurt alot of people but she never till this day realizes this . Kinda sad ..
sorry about that . at least u had more gonads to say it
 peace out
#8 | 1700 days ago
lovinmyjeffgordon (+)

bigbueh64 wrote:
sorry about that . at least u had more gonads to say it
 peace out
My x-husband has never grown up, he is very self centered and he will never get it. I think our x's are really missing out...But i guess They will learn the hard way....Any time my dear friend
#9 | 1700 days ago

Left my hubby of 44 yrs,  6 yrs ago, divorced him 3 yrs later and he passed away a yr later.   I now say i am a divorced widow. 
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#10 | 1700 days ago
Cherrie (+)

Going through it now, and yes it sucks, but we actually get along better now than when we were together. I can hear his voice without wanting to crack his skull, that's a big improvement.
#11 | 1700 days ago

Cop4Cubs wrote:
I have been divorced and it stinks. The "Ex"  ran off with our (2)kids 6 states away an remarried. Saw my kids 3 times a year for about 13 years. Bitter and angry hell Yes !  Talk to her- only when necessary. Cant stand her and could care less about her. Time to move on ..
Sorry to hear you had such a bad divorce. Unfortunately the only ones that suffer in that situation are the kids.
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#12 | 1700 days ago

lovinmyjeffgordon wrote:
My x-husband has never grown up, he is very self centered and he will never get it. I think our x's are really missing out...But i guess They will learn the hard way....Any time my dear friend
some peoples trash are others treasures
#13 | 1700 days ago

(Edited by maddhatter6691)
I have been Divorced 2 times, Luckily I only had my 4 boy's with the first ex and yes she used to always try and start some sorta sh*t
but that didn't work. And all I told her when she moved out is don't get in front of the TV. And the second 1 is a crack head I dont think she even knows what state she lives in 
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#14 | 1700 days ago
Cop4Cubs (+)

Cop4Cubs wrote:
Thanks KC it hurt alot of people but she never till this day realizes this . Kinda sad ..
Thanks Jeff appreciate that my friend !
#15 | 1700 days ago
18packabs (+)

Cop4Cubs wrote:
Thanks Jeff appreciate that my friend !
I am with you brother. I have been divorced twice, but only have a child with the 2nd ex. She went back to the West Coast after we split. I see him only twice a year, this year I actually got a third time. I don't talk to either of them, haven't for years. It seems to make my life much easier. Feeling and Living your pain my friend.
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#16 | 1700 days ago
BlondeKitten (+)

cuddles127017 wrote:
Left my hubby of 44 yrs,  6 yrs ago, divorced him 3 yrs later and he passed away a yr later.   I now say i am a divorced widow. 
With him for 44 yrs?...THEN you divorced him?... wow. The reason must have been a doosie!..and none of my business.
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#17 | 1700 days ago

BlondeKitten wrote:
With him for 44 yrs?...THEN you divorced him?... wow. The reason must have been a doosie!..and none of my business.
slow working posien
#18 | 1700 days ago
Cop4Cubs (+)

18packabs wrote:
I am with you brother. I have been divorced twice, but only have a child with the 2nd ex. She went back to the West Coast after we split. I see him only twice a year, this year I actually got a third time. I don't talk to either of them, haven't for years. It seems to make my life much easier. Feeling and Living your pain my friend.
Hi Ed,  I really don't think they understand that there is little people involved also, not just them being  spiteful and vindictive !
#19 | 1700 days ago
18packabs (+)

So very true my wise friend. The pain the people who are suppose to be the adults, cause those ones we are suppose to teach, is sometimes irreparable.Thankfully he is old enough now to fly by himself when he wants. I also have the flexibility to fly out there when i need to. So I see our relationship blossoming through his teen years.

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#20 | 1699 days ago

I didn't get divorced, but we were seperate for 6 years.
Reason was a pity one, she wanted to stay seperate from my parents.
But I was firm, I didn't want to leave my parents at the evening of their life.
Thanks to my parents they only brought her back.
#21 | 1699 days ago

Never been married, so I never had to get divorced. I do have a daughter with a girl I was with for 8 years and we split up 12 years ago. Instead of letting a court decide our child's fate we sat down like adults and worked out custody and child support by ourselves. I have seen my daughter almost everyday since the breakup and I get along with my ex. Although we do still fight from time to time.
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#22 | 1698 days ago
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Cop4Cubs wrote:
Thanks Jeff appreciate that my friend !

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#23 | 1698 days ago

I got divorced 10 years ago and we don't speak,she's a wacko.Like Bell-Biv-DeVoe said in their song called"Poison",never trust a big butt and a smile!
#24 | 1697 days ago

after 1st divorce - was single for 12 years,,, unfortunately I am  now going on 10 months in my second divorce
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#25 | 1671 days ago
vindog (+)

I've been divorced from Ex-Wife for 19 years now and haven't talked to her or seen her since 1993!  I have been re-married for 10 years now ( on March 27th) to a wonderful person and my BEST FRIEND.......
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