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Do you withhold sex from your significant other when you're mad? (Edited 10/14/10 01:37AM by Jess)
I have been mad at a few women in my life for different reasons. When I am mad and we don't talk it out and they act like everything is ok, I withdraw sex. Sex is important to me and I don't just lay with anyone. But if you don't care about my feelings enough to help get us through a tuff time, why should I have sex with you?
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8%a. I sure do
3%b. Sometimes
28%c. I can't go without it
33%d. I start a fight to have make up sex
28%e. Other

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#37 | 1674 days ago

I'm a guy. I don't have the opportunity to withhold sex. I just accept opportunities provided to me.
  
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#1 | 1674 days ago

What is a significant other?
Other  
#2 | 1674 days ago

hskrdave wrote:
What is a significant other?
wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/dog/cat/hand....get it?
#3 | 1674 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

Hell no.  I don't withhold sex for any reason!
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#4 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
wife/girlfriend/husband/boyfriend/dog/cat/hand....get it?
 yeah i got it.

other than my hand, it's just been a while since any of those others.

Never had a husband, BF, or cat.  (clarification for ashlie )
Other  
#5 | 1674 days ago

that made me laugh because i dont believe you.


and no, for the most part I dont use sex as a weapon! Might not like him very much, but I love sex.
I can't go without it  
#6 | 1674 days ago

hskrdave wrote:
 yeah i got it.

other than my hand, it's just been a while since any of those others.

Never had a husband, BF, or cat.  (clarification for ashlie )




dont you go reading my mind.  CRAP! it was gonna be good.
I can't go without it  
#7 | 1674 days ago

Why withhold sex?  You have issues-seek therapy
Other  
#8 | 1674 days ago
JRSFLAME88 (+)

Only if it is rough sex........Can I slap his around some?
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#9 | 1674 days ago

Acting as another instrument for negotiation ...
#10 | 1674 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

I had that same thought.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#11 | 1674 days ago

ohwell_ wrote:
Why withhold sex?  You have issues-seek therapy
I don't have issues. I am secure in my mind body and soul, but what's mine is mine. I know I am very good at pleasing women, so therefore if I believe that you've neglected a basic need of me, then I can withhold my pleasuring, simple.
#12 | 1674 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

wow
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#13 | 1674 days ago

BTW, it's like colt 45, it works everytime. Then there's more feelings invovled.
#14 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
I don't have issues. I am secure in my mind body and soul, but what's mine is mine. I know I am very good at pleasing women, so therefore if I believe that you've neglected a basic need of me, then I can withhold my pleasuring, simple.
 this is taboo, i think.


but i do have a friend who would tell his chick that when she was showing out, I guess he was so good that she pulled her sh*t together.  It only works if the other person allows it though.
I can't go without it  
#15 | 1674 days ago

But...angry sex is so good...
#16 | 1674 days ago

The control thing,  I see.    How many S's are in narcissist?
Other  
#17 | 1674 days ago
Dooney (+)

ohwell_ wrote:
Why withhold sex?  You have issues-seek therapy
Oh Brother...
#18 | 1674 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:
 this is taboo, i think.


but i do have a friend who would tell his chick that when she was showing out, I guess he was so good that she pulled her sh*t together.  It only works if the other person allows it though.
Understood, but I am very good ( not bragging but take my time ) and I have been with her for many years. It has never failed me because it's for the right reason. I do all the cooking ( used to cater ), make sure the home is clean when she can't. I do all the painting, and repairs for the roof etc. I make sure she gets the things she needs, so she better work things out. I have never be "let go" by a woman.
#19 | 1674 days ago

ohwell_ wrote:
The control thing,  I see.    How many S's are in narcissist?
Call it what YOU want. Can't you count them? Giggles. You typed it, you should know...lol
#20 | 1674 days ago

Chief_aka_James wrote:
But...angry sex is so good...
Lmao, if she thinks it is. If she doesn't, look for bail money
#21 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
Understood, but I am very good ( not bragging but take my time ) and I have been with her for many years. It has never failed me because it's for the right reason. I do all the cooking ( used to cater ), make sure the home is clean when she can't. I do all the painting, and repairs for the roof etc. I make sure she gets the things she needs, so she better work things out. I have never be "let go" by a woman.
dude, you don't exist.



I can't go without it  
#22 | 1674 days ago

No I don't...I like angry sex!
Other  
#23 | 1674 days ago

Chief_aka_James wrote:
But...angry sex is so good...
for once kiddo, you are correct!
I can't go without it  
#24 | 1674 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:
dude, you don't exist.



But my tongue sure does
#25 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
But my tongue sure does

if you werent 2009 years old, that may have been hot!

I can't go without it  
#26 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
Lmao, if she thinks it is. If she doesn't, look for bail money
You're doing it wrong...
#27 | 1674 days ago

Chief_aka_James wrote:
You're doing it wrong...
H ah aha, I don't do angry sex. lmao
#28 | 1674 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:

if you werent 2009 years old, that may have been hot!

Not worried sugar...But she knows what year it is.
#29 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
Not worried sugar...But she knows what year it is.
not if you did it right? LOL
I can't go without it  
#30 | 1674 days ago

Two words:
Hate Fu*k
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#31 | 1674 days ago

There isn't a man in his right mind that would withhold sex. You are only punishing yourself.. That is only a thing an evil, manipulative woman would do.
I can't go without it  
#32 | 1674 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
Call it what YOU want. Can't you count them? Giggles. You typed it, you should know...lol
spellcheck  lol
Other  
#33 | 1674 days ago

McIggle Say, Wit-hold sesx same asa geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! 
#34 | 1674 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

 Why do you think i've been so mean to you in the other poll? 
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#35 | 1674 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

 No I like sex to much to play those stupid games. 
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#36 | 1674 days ago

      My name is McLuvin and that's all I got to say about that!!!!       `
I can't go without it  
#37 | 1674 days ago

I'm a guy. I don't have the opportunity to withhold sex. I just accept opportunities provided to me.
#38 | 1674 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

murphyiv wrote:
Understood, but I am very good ( not bragging but take my time ) and I have been with her for many years. It has never failed me because it's for the right reason. I do all the cooking ( used to cater ), make sure the home is clean when she can't. I do all the painting, and repairs for the roof etc. I make sure she gets the things she needs, so she better work things out. I have never be "let go" by a woman.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#39 | 1674 days ago

Dude, we're dudes. I believe this is a question for the beeyotches, cuz if you're holding out on it you're defnit'ly one.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#40 | 1674 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

marcus_nyce wrote:
Dude, we're dudes. I believe this is a question for the beeyotches, cuz if you're holding out on it you're defnit'ly one.
Marcus, I sincerely wish that I had just one more respect left today.

I start a fight to have make up sex  
#41 | 1674 days ago

I hear men think about sex every 7 seconds, and I'm thinking 'what the heck are all of those other dudes thinking about?'
Other  
#42 | 1674 days ago

Beaneaters wrote:
I hear men think about sex every 7 seconds, and I'm thinking 'what the heck are all of those other dudes thinking about?'
hehehe...
I can't go without it  
#43 | 1674 days ago

Dayum right...She gets NONE of the Majik Stick
I sure do  
#44 | 1674 days ago

NMboyzfan wrote:
Marcus, I sincerely wish that I had just one more respect left today.

LOL, ditto. I go through all my respect like Lindsey Lohan at a chic after party.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#45 | 1674 days ago

Is that a sort of sacrifice for reaching the Nirvana? otherway I don't get it
#46 | 1674 days ago

Bragging about your sexual prowess on the internet is sooooooo cool...
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#47 | 1674 days ago
JRSFLAME88 (+)

The_Real_Stoney wrote:
Two words:
Hate Fu*k
I hate you and your AVS!! 
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#48 | 1674 days ago
kammi42 (+)

For the sake of finding out the truth and research  (maybe i could get a grant )  ...if some one would like to have sex with me then withhold it we could get right to the crux of this issue.     
#49 | 1674 days ago
vindog (+)

LOL, I just can't picture myself running away from my wife through the house yelling "No you can't B%$W Me- I'm mad at you".....   Sorry but, I aint the one.....
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#50 | 1674 days ago

Hell no!!!Why would I punish myself?SEX ABOVE EVERYTHING!!
#51 | 1674 days ago

No, withholding sex from your marriage partner is just evil. 
Other  
#52 | 1674 days ago
marytrammell31 (+)

LOL, this is funny.. I am getting to know each of you a little bit better than i had intended to...And my answer would be no...Who would be the one getting punished..? lmao.....
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#53 | 1674 days ago
JRSFLAME88 (+)

marytrammell31 wrote:
LOL, this is funny.. I am getting to know each of you a little bit better than i had intended to...And my answer would be no...Who would be the one getting punished..? lmao.....
That's funny Ms. Mary!   Hang around long enough you might find out things you would rather not! lol
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#54 | 1673 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 Why do you think i've been so mean to you in the other poll? 
You mean to me? You don't know what mean issss...ha ha ha
#55 | 1673 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 No I like sex to much to play those stupid games. 
Game? I get it, you like to get what you want even when your wrong. Could that mean you're wrong alot?
#56 | 1673 days ago

marcus_nyce wrote:
Dude, we're dudes. I believe this is a question for the beeyotches, cuz if you're holding out on it you're defnit'ly one.
Wow, I would have never expected that coming from you. But I guess alot of women like to call men names. You're forgiven young lady.
#57 | 1673 days ago

marcus_nyce wrote:
LOL, ditto. I go through all my respect like Lindsey Lohan at a chic after party.
You're like lindsey lohan? Does that mean you have no respect at all? That last comment about me I am sure you wouldn't have said face to face....I would have loved you to try.
#58 | 1673 days ago

Michael_G wrote:
Bragging about your sexual prowess on the internet is sooooooo cool...
Flicks the next flea off...
#59 | 1673 days ago

marytrammell31 wrote:
LOL, this is funny.. I am getting to know each of you a little bit better than i had intended to...And my answer would be no...Who would be the one getting punished..? lmao.....
I learned self control along time ago. Can't make me a fool or do anything for sex.
#60 | 1673 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:

if you werent 2009 years old, that may have been hot!

Omg, I just got your comment, I was rushing to get off work. That's funny....the next day...ok, shoot me now...
#61 | 1673 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

murphyiv wrote:
Game? I get it, you like to get what you want even when your wrong. Could that mean you're wrong alot?
 I believe I said I like sex to much to play those games.  And I am wrong daily like most people are. And by the way a lot is 2 words. 
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#62 | 1673 days ago

OOOh So you mean now I can go back and critcize your grammar. That would take to long. Have a nice day. But try comprehension. I never said I am playing a game...
#63 | 1673 days ago

stop bickering.
I can't go without it  
#64 | 1673 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

kobe_lova wrote:
stop bickering.
 Some call it bickering, others call it foreplay  
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#65 | 1673 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

murphyiv wrote:
OOOh So you mean now I can go back and critcize your grammar. That would take to long. Have a nice day. But try comprehension. I never said I am playing a game...
 Hey CARLTON, have a good day, see you in the locker room. And thanks for my coffee it is very good. 
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#66 | 1673 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 Some call it bickering, others call it foreplay  
he doesn't...that's whole issue here, isn't it?
I can't go without it  
#67 | 1673 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

kobe_lova wrote:
he doesn't...that's whole issue here, isn't it?
And you know this how? We like getting on each others nerves. Kind of like you and James. 
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#68 | 1673 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
And you know this how? We like getting on each others nerves. Kind of like you and James. 
When I am mad and we don't talk it out and they act like everything is ok, I withdraw sex.


hello?
I can't go without it  
#69 | 1673 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
And you know this how? We like getting on each others nerves. Kind of like you and James. 
i dont like getting on his nerves. I really like that baby.
I can't go without it  
#70 | 1673 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

kobe_lova wrote:
When I am mad and we don't talk it out and they act like everything is ok, I withdraw sex.


hello?
  ok well (lmao)  maybe just one time I should say no.  
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#71 | 1673 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

kammi42 wrote:
For the sake of finding out the truth and research  (maybe i could get a grant )  ...if some one would like to have sex with me then withhold it we could get right to the crux of this issue.     
I'm good with the first part of the research, but I think we need to have sex repeatedly, over a long, long period of time.  Then, when I start withholding it from you, we need to work that in in much smaller increments...like we don't do it for say, 2 minutes.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#72 | 1673 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:
i dont like getting on his nerves. I really like that baby.
F**k you.
#73 | 1673 days ago

well all i can say is there no reason to be mad and stupid
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#74 | 1673 days ago
JRSFLAME88 (+)

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 Some call it bickering, others call it foreplay  
That's what I thought was going on.  I was going to just let y'all have this as a private place.    Looks like you got busted!
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#75 | 1673 days ago

Make up sex is the best.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#76 | 1673 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 Hey CARLTON, have a good day, see you in the locker room. And thanks for my coffee it is very good. 
Anyting me-lady. Now back to work!
#77 | 1673 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:
i dont like getting on his nerves. I really like that baby.
Difference is, we're not in a relationship....issues her a pass.....
#78 | 1673 days ago

JRSFLAME88 wrote:
That's what I thought was going on.  I was going to just let y'all have this as a private place.    Looks like you got busted!
We thought the curtain was down....
#79 | 1673 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:
i dont like getting on his nerves. I really like that baby.
And you stop it! Now everyone's wondering....
#80 | 1673 days ago

cuddles127017 wrote:
No, withholding sex from your marriage partner is just evil. 
Not if they're really EVIL.
#81 | 1673 days ago

CAPTAINSEAFOOD wrote:
well all i can say is there no reason to be mad and stupid
Stupid is when you give in to someone when they're wrong. You get used over and over again. If sex can make you let people disregard your feelings and lead you into a mindless stage, enjoy. None for me thank you.
#82 | 1673 days ago

I can't go without it  
#83 | 1673 days ago

Chief_aka_James wrote:
F**k you.
2014...until then, dont wanna hear that language again.
I can't go without it  
#84 | 1673 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

Divine intervention...not always a bad thing.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#85 | 1673 days ago
NMboyzfan (+)

kobe_lova wrote:
2014...until then, dont wanna hear that language again.
Holy sh*t you won't even let the guy cuss until he's like 30???
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#86 | 1673 days ago

NMboyzfan wrote:
Holy sh*t you won't even let the guy cuss until he's like 30???
Or 25, close enough..
#87 | 1673 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
You're like lindsey lohan? Does that mean you have no respect at all? That last comment about me I am sure you wouldn't have said face to face....I would have loved you to try.
You're right, that was over the line. I apologize. (bad joke, poor taste) I would have sent you an IM, but admitting this way seems better. There is way too much of that B.S. on here, then I go and drop a cheapshot. Not Cool.
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#88 | 1673 days ago
marytrammell31 (+)

JRSFLAME88 wrote:
That's funny Ms. Mary!   Hang around long enough you might find out things you would rather not! lol
That's what I am afraid of Gina....Oh well, it will teach me who to stay away from...Right? On the other hand I am open for some options..... Actually I am open to ALL options right now except for the scammers.... So what do you think of that Miss Gina.?
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#89 | 1673 days ago
kammi42 (+)

NMboyzfan wrote:
I'm good with the first part of the research, but I think we need to have sex repeatedly, over a long, long period of time.  Then, when I start withholding it from you, we need to work that in in much smaller increments...like we don't do it for say, 2 minutes.
I have a small secret so ok for research purposes i aggree to those terms .
#90 | 1673 days ago

kammi42 wrote:
I have a small secret so ok for research purposes i aggree to those terms .
"I have a small secret"...if that means you have a penis, I don't think Mike minds too much.
#91 | 1673 days ago
kammi42 (+)

Chief_aka_James wrote:
"I have a small secret"...if that means you have a penis, I don't think Mike minds too much.
ewwww not that secret and i think he is partial to another lol
#92 | 1672 days ago
ArmyStrong212 (+)

kobe_lova wrote:

if you werent 2009 years old, that may have been hot!

thats pretty funny!!!
I start a fight to have make up sex  
#93 | 1672 days ago

ArmyStrong212 wrote:
thats pretty funny!!!
Very funny....That's how old I am...
#94 | 1623 days ago

with a man its pure PHYSICAL, with a woman its pure EMOTIONAL. We(MEN) wont but women will, its a feeling connected thing. I dont get mad I get EVEN,,,,,,,,,
I sure do  
#95 | 1515 days ago

Why would you want to do that. just cause I am not happy does not mean I want to punish myself too! 
Other  
#96 | 1513 days ago

Yea, I am a high drive kind of guy, so I need it all the time!  I don’t have the self control to withhold sex and I don’t even try.  Normally I end up full to the MAX and acting like a retard in the corner! 

I can't go without it  
#97 | 1513 days ago

No way. My wife and i have sex whenever we feel the need. Sometimes the makeup is the best time.
I can't go without it  
#98 | 1513 days ago

If my wife's mad, forget about it. If I'm mad, she'll actually seduce me to 'make up' for whatever she did. She still won't admit she did anything wrong, but it's just her way of saying 'sorry'.
I can't go without it  

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