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What is your Advice to people contemplating SUICIDE? (Edited 05/30/10 07:26PM by )
THIS IS MY HUMBLE CONTRIBUTION TO LET PEOPLE WHO WANTS TO DIE.... THAT THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEBODY WHO CARES AND LOVE THEM

What is your Advice to people contemplating SUICIDE? <span style="font-size:12px;">(Edited 05/30/10 07:26PM by )</span> Photo

What is your Advice to people contemplating SUICIDE? <span style="font-size:12px;">(Edited 05/30/10 07:26PM by )</span> Photo
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3%a. DONT BE A FOOL!
21%b. LIFE IS WORTH LIVING
21%c. ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF
17%d. YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED
38%e. DONT......

 &nbp;
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#1 | 1641 days ago

I think most people who commit suicide just want out of the  situation they are in at the time.  They need love yes, and they need to know that this too shall pass and there will be brighter days.  At the moment they  can't see this on their own, they need someone who cares to show them how to get to that point.
DONT......  
  
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#1 | 1641 days ago

I think most people who commit suicide just want out of the  situation they are in at the time.  They need love yes, and they need to know that this too shall pass and there will be brighter days.  At the moment they  can't see this on their own, they need someone who cares to show them how to get to that point.
DONT......  
#2 | 1641 days ago

 dont do it,
#3 | 1641 days ago

Don't do it, that will always be my advice.
DONT......  
#4 | 1641 days ago

I think there's always a solution and people around that can help.
#5 | 1641 days ago

 Just bring some1 close into the matter for whatever that made you to come to that point. It will really help you to get new ways to solve the mess you are in n bring new hope of living. Don't close your door to this World just as you have judged it, give a chance for proper justification n if you give then I am certain that more good judgement will be passed where you will repent in future that you have ever thought of ending your life.
#6 | 1641 days ago

(Edited by coyotedances)
#7 | 1641 days ago

TELL SOMEBODY! DO NOT KEEP THESE FEELINGS TO YOURSELF!
#8 | 1640 days ago

I would do more listening than talking, but it would still be the same advice no matter what.
DONT......  
#9 | 1639 days ago

Life is only going to get worse, you mite just aswell stick around and see how bad it can really get
LIFE IS WORTH LIVING  
#10 | 1639 days ago
Mr_Rogers (+)

If there really is no stopping you, I only ask that you do not endanger the lives of anyone else. I hate when i read stories of people who jump off a building and kill 2 more people on the ground, or drive into another vehicle head on, killing a family of four.  Just remember though, no matter how bad you think you have it, there is ALWAYS somebody somewhere who has it worse than you.
#11 | 1639 days ago
NorseHeathen (+)

If their a prisoner with a sentence of "life without the possibility of parole", I say give them a rope or whatever instrument they want to accomplish their task.  Let them atone for their crimes by saving the society they wronged the cost of their incarceration.
#12 | 1639 days ago
ssusiej46 (+)

Tomorrow is another day ,, and there is no coming back , think about your loved ones that will suffer everyday  and  how they feel, and it is very selfish on your part
YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED  
#13 | 1639 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

(Edited by cubsgirl2)
 This is what I have told my daughters and a few of their friends

Suicide is a PERMANENT solution to a TEMPORARY problem.   





but assisted suicide is a whole different topic. 
DONT......  
#14 | 1639 days ago

ssusiej46 wrote:
Tomorrow is another day ,, and there is no coming back , think about your loved ones that will suffer everyday  and  how they feel, and it is very selfish on your part
You Are Totally Right,,High Five For That One
YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED  
#15 | 1639 days ago

A problem with suicide is the individual can mask the item(s) that torment them to a point that loved ones do not see the warning signs or the warning signs are so subtle to those that are close that they are not seen.  Whether it's teens or adults, the feelings can be so deep that there doesn't feel that there is any way out - but there are always alternatives.  Rarely do we think that a loved one is even contemplating suicide and if it happens, it has a life long devastating effect on all those who were close.  I have tried to instill in my kids to never give up on anything -- especially life -- you aren't here for all that long, might as well enjoy what you can, while you can.  Quitting isn't a solution, there are always alternatives.
YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED  
#16 | 1639 days ago

Tomorrow is another day
#17 | 1639 days ago

messy11 wrote:
 dont do it,
i had four friends who took that way out, very sad,
#18 | 1639 days ago

I never really understood the solution of suicide. I mean your hurting other people who care about you. Is anything that bad that you have to take your own life? Love gone wrong, the death of a loved one, criminal charges (unless your a child molester, go for it), job loss? When sh!t come on you, it comes in loads and piles, but there is always a solution. Suicide is the easy way out.
#19 | 1639 days ago

ssusiej46 wrote:
Tomorrow is another day ,, and there is no coming back , think about your loved ones that will suffer everyday  and  how they feel, and it is very selfish on your part
Amen couldn't have said it better. Its wrong of a person to have their loved ones (family&friends) to wake up every day with the hurt of this for the rest of their lives.
#20 | 1639 days ago

I think their are circumstances......We dont make our animals suffer ,,should we make people that are sick suffer? i am very pro assisted suicide.  however if people are doing it because they feel there is no other way out of a problem or circumstance.......they need to know there is!!!  We need to be more compassionate to those reaching out...and we must be aware of other's actions. My ex tried to commit suicide,and i happened to hear the 44 mag misfire!  (9 hours later....i finally got the gun away from him ) he thanks me almost weekely,even though he is my ex.....
#21 | 1638 days ago

get a dog
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  
#22 | 1638 days ago

(Edited by blondie45044)
I would say death comes all to soon, and the family members left behind to deal with it do not deserve the  pain or suffering of knowing that you took your own life............. I would also say to toughen up and be strong! God put you here for a reason and I am sure it was not so you could take your own life.


No matter how tough, rough you have it own it and be strong... Life is worth living and sometimes the best advice is none at all. A person who suffers from greater issues sometimes just needs to be held and feel the LOVE.
YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED  
#23 | 1638 days ago
adamace (+)

it is easy to quit. there is no honor in giving up. it is tough to keep going, to keep fighting.

regardless of your situation, somebody somewhere has had it much worse than you. and they didn't quit........neither should you.
#24 | 1638 days ago

Well, anyone that is trying to stop them better do it from a distance....they will bring you with them. I have told a few friends in the past to just get it over with instead of having your family and children suffer. You work with people and give them your all to see them constantly give up and almost get you killed with them. Here's a true story. A child hood friens feel in love with a hooker. (I know, stupid) but he did and couldn't have the thought of seeing her with someone else. He beat her up pretty bad and told me he wants to die. He was in a drunken drug induced state. I told him to go ahead and do it because you don't hit women first of all and secondly who knows what you're thinking right now. He didn't have to worry, her brother came around with a friend and mybrother went with my friend to talk about the beating. Since my friend wanted to die, (He didn't tell my brother what he told me) he pulled out a fake gun and hit the guy that had a real gun. Needless to say, the other guy shot him twice in the stomache and the other bullet missed my brother who has already been shot 4 different times. He ran 50 feet and collasped.....You may get what you ask for.
#25 | 1638 days ago

MY BROTHER IN LOVE WAS A SUICIDE, WHE ,THE FAMILY, CANT DO NOTHING, LOVE, DOCTORS, CAREFULL, NOTHING, HE WAS INGENIER IN QUIMISTRY, HE VISIT HIS BEST FRIEND IN THE LAB, TAKE STRICNINE , IN THE NIGTH, HE LIVES WHITH HIS PARENTS, HE TAKE PILLS FOR SLEEP AND THE STRICNINE.- I NOW THAT WHEN SOMEONE  DONT SAY NOTHING BUT WANT BE A SUICIDE, ONLY WHE CAN DO IS MAYBE MAKE LIVE THE LOVE PERSON A FEW MORE , IN GENERAL WHO SAY I WANT THE SUICIDE, IS FOR HELP, WHO DONT SAY NOTHING, THAT IS THE TRUE SUICIDE .-
DONT......  
#26 | 1638 days ago

Those who take their own lives are COWARDS!!! You wanna kill yourself, because your husband/wife or boy/girlfriend left you...boowhoo....my motto on that is "It's your lost baby...NEXT!!!'  You've lost your job of so many years...ok...don't wallow, try something different or better yet, do something for someone else...God will provide for you if you have FAITH!!! I DON'T THROW PITY PARTYS....YOU WANT TO KILL YOURSELF CUZ YOU CAN'T HANDLE REALITY....THAN YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU WILL GET IN THE AFTER LIFE...AND THAT IS THE LAKE OF FIRE....YOU THINK YOU GOT IT BAD HERE ON EARTH....YOU HAVE NO IDEA YOU SORRY EXCUSE OF FLESH!!!! SNAP OUT OF IT YOU BIG A** CRY BABY....booooowhoooooo.....wah wah wah! somebody give that fool some breast milk!
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  
#27 | 1638 days ago
NorseHeathen (+)

Wow....no judgments in that rant....


Isn't compassion supposed to be a part of such a creed?
#28 | 1638 days ago

I SUBMITTED A POLL CALLED IS THIS JUSTICE,WHERE MY BEST FRIEND DAUGHTER COMMITED SUICIDE AFTER THE MAN THAT RAPED AND BEAT HER AND DESTROYED HER LIFE WAS GIVEN A WAY TO LESS OF PUNISHMENT ,EVEN THOUGH I DONT BELIEVE THAT SUICIDE IS THE ANSWER,AND I DO BELIEVE IT IS NOT GODS WILL FOR US TO DO THAT,BUT WE SHOULD BE VERY CAREFUL IN CALLING THEM COWARDS,OR WEAK ,I HAVE SEEN THE TREMENDOUS SUFFERING THIS CAN CAUSE,SO I BEG ANYONE THAT MIGHT KNOW SOMEONE CONTEMPLATING THIS TO TAKE SOME AFFIRMATIVE ACTION AND TRY TO GET THEM SO HELP,IF WE CAN SAVE ONE LIFE IT IS WELL WORTH IT,GOD BLESS ALL MY FELLOW IQUERS
LIFE IS WORTH LIVING  
#29 | 1638 days ago

CAPTAINSEAFOOD wrote:
I SUBMITTED A POLL CALLED IS THIS JUSTICE,WHERE MY BEST FRIEND DAUGHTER COMMITED SUICIDE AFTER THE MAN THAT RAPED AND BEAT HER AND DESTROYED HER LIFE WAS GIVEN A WAY TO LESS OF PUNISHMENT ,EVEN THOUGH I DONT BELIEVE THAT SUICIDE IS THE ANSWER,AND I DO BELIEVE IT IS NOT GODS WILL FOR US TO DO THAT,BUT WE SHOULD BE VERY CAREFUL IN CALLING THEM COWARDS,OR WEAK ,I HAVE SEEN THE TREMENDOUS SUFFERING THIS CAN CAUSE,SO I BEG ANYONE THAT MIGHT KNOW SOMEONE CONTEMPLATING THIS TO TAKE SOME AFFIRMATIVE ACTION AND TRY TO GET THEM SO HELP,IF WE CAN SAVE ONE LIFE IT IS WELL WORTH IT,GOD BLESS ALL MY FELLOW IQUERS
I am sorry to hear about your friend's daughter...really i am, and if i sounded harsh on my comment, it's only cuz im no quitter to life.  I have been beaten to an inch of my life and i have been raped and molested since i was five and i have been abused in all sense of the word...BUT WHAT DIDN'T BREAK ME...MADE ME STRONGER!!! I help those who want a new life of change for the better of themselves... i show them that their is a Silver lining for every dark cloud that hangs over you...and that life is worth living just to spread LOVE, LAUGHTER and i would never had given any one the satisfication of taking my own life after what they have done to me...NEVER!!!!!
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  
#30 | 1638 days ago
NorseHeathen (+)

phatkat wrote:
I am sorry to hear about your friend's daughter...really i am, and if i sounded harsh on my comment, it's only cuz im no quitter to life.  I have been beaten to an inch of my life and i have been raped and molested since i was five and i have been abused in all sense of the word...BUT WHAT DIDN'T BREAK ME...MADE ME STRONGER!!! I help those who want a new life of change for the better of themselves... i show them that their is a Silver lining for every dark cloud that hangs over you...and that life is worth living just to spread LOVE, LAUGHTER and i would never had given any one the satisfication of taking my own life after what they have done to me...NEVER!!!!!
It's obvious you've persevered through a great deal of hardship in life--more than anyone need to have and for that you should be admired and respected.  Should you have the opportunity, I hope you pass such upon that have such a need so that they to may find the strength within them.  The hardships you endured in your past could very much be a blessing to others in the future.
#31 | 1638 days ago

NorseHeathen wrote:
It's obvious you've persevered through a great deal of hardship in life--more than anyone need to have and for that you should be admired and respected.  Should you have the opportunity, I hope you pass such upon that have such a need so that they to may find the strength within them.  The hardships you endured in your past could very much be a blessing to others in the future.
THANK YOU MY FRIEND, FOR THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I TRY TO DO...I PITTY NO ONE WHEN THEY DON'T WANT TO HELP THEMSELVES AND THEY JUST WANT TO WALLOW OR WORSE YET TAKE THEIR LIFE!  I will NOT stand by and watch someone hurt another person, i will NOT stand by and watch you throw your life away, i will NOT just wait there to die....I WILL SURVIVE!!!
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  
#32 | 1638 days ago

phatkat wrote:
I am sorry to hear about your friend's daughter...really i am, and if i sounded harsh on my comment, it's only cuz im no quitter to life.  I have been beaten to an inch of my life and i have been raped and molested since i was five and i have been abused in all sense of the word...BUT WHAT DIDN'T BREAK ME...MADE ME STRONGER!!! I help those who want a new life of change for the better of themselves... i show them that their is a Silver lining for every dark cloud that hangs over you...and that life is worth living just to spread LOVE, LAUGHTER and i would never had given any one the satisfication of taking my own life after what they have done to me...NEVER!!!!!
You stay strong doll!
#33 | 1637 days ago

murphyiv wrote:
You stay strong doll!

THANK YOU =^_^=
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  
#34 | 1635 days ago

WHAT YOU WAITING FOR?
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  
#35 | 1634 days ago

phatkat wrote:
I am sorry to hear about your friend's daughter...really i am, and if i sounded harsh on my comment, it's only cuz im no quitter to life.  I have been beaten to an inch of my life and i have been raped and molested since i was five and i have been abused in all sense of the word...BUT WHAT DIDN'T BREAK ME...MADE ME STRONGER!!! I help those who want a new life of change for the better of themselves... i show them that their is a Silver lining for every dark cloud that hangs over you...and that life is worth living just to spread LOVE, LAUGHTER and i would never had given any one the satisfication of taking my own life after what they have done to me...NEVER!!!!!
I CANT SAY I UNDERSTAND HOW IT FEELS TO BE ABUSED AND I AM GLAD THAT YOU ARE STRONG AND HAVE ALOT OF INNER FORTITUDE YOU SHOULD BE PROUD OF WHAT YOU HAVE ACCOMPLISHED IN LIFE,UNFORTUNATLY EVERYONE DOESNT HAVE THAT SAME INNER STRENGTH,HOPEFULLY LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING CAN HELP THOSE WHO NEED IT JUST TO SURVIVE
LIFE IS WORTH LIVING  
#36 | 1632 days ago
ssusiej46 (+)

phatkat wrote:
I am sorry to hear about your friend's daughter...really i am, and if i sounded harsh on my comment, it's only cuz im no quitter to life.  I have been beaten to an inch of my life and i have been raped and molested since i was five and i have been abused in all sense of the word...BUT WHAT DIDN'T BREAK ME...MADE ME STRONGER!!! I help those who want a new life of change for the better of themselves... i show them that their is a Silver lining for every dark cloud that hangs over you...and that life is worth living just to spread LOVE, LAUGHTER and i would never had given any one the satisfication of taking my own life after what they have done to me...NEVER!!!!!

I have been thur just what you have, maybe more or less and it made me strong also , but never loss my compassion for others, what  may be nothing compare to my life ,but to them it may feel alot. Do not feel like you are better ,we are lucky that we got thur it all and learned from it God love all not only the strong

YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED  
#37 | 1631 days ago

ssusiej46 wrote:

I have been thur just what you have, maybe more or less and it made me strong also , but never loss my compassion for others, what  may be nothing compare to my life ,but to them it may feel alot. Do not feel like you are better ,we are lucky that we got thur it all and learned from it God love all not only the strong

HEY THERE
#38 | 1621 days ago
confederate_rose98 (+)

adamace wrote:
it is easy to quit. there is no honor in giving up. it is tough to keep going, to keep fighting.

regardless of your situation, somebody somewhere has had it much worse than you. and they didn't quit........neither should you.
very nice
DONT......  
#39 | 1621 days ago

My advice would include to first let the person know you care the worst thing is for some one to feel you are talking at them and not to them listen to the persons problems because nine times of ten they are already crying out for help and starting to feel no one cares. the apply realistic solutions such as your problem don't go away when you are gone it just multiply in everyone you leave behind i would also say that every problem is not so big that their isn't a solution, and most of all i would express that you are loved by everyone.

YOUR LOVE ONES WOULD BE DEVASTATED  
#40 | 1614 days ago

ssusiej46 wrote:

I have been thur just what you have, maybe more or less and it made me strong also , but never loss my compassion for others, what  may be nothing compare to my life ,but to them it may feel alot. Do not feel like you are better ,we are lucky that we got thur it all and learned from it God love all not only the strong

I never place myself above anyone lovely....i put myself to their level so that i CAN UNDERSTAND their woes and confusions and with that i am able to enter into their world and show them that there is a better way of life! And yes we are blessed to have survived what we had gone through...that is why i can FORGIVE and LOVE!
ITS A MORTAL SIN TO KILL ONESELF  

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