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Have you gone thru too much sadness.... and crying isnt just enough
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Have you gone thru too much sadness.... and crying isnt just enough Photo
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0%a. Made me want to hurt someone
0%b. Shouted on top of my lungs
7%c. Made me want to hurt myself
0%d. Destroyed some articles
93%e. ________

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#7 | 1570 days ago
Mr_Rogers (+)

Blonde_Kitten wrote:
Yeppers... I think everyone has.
When my sister passed I never cried....I knew it wouldnt help... so why do it then? I didnt know what to do. Still to this day I still dont know what to do...
Kitten, I love you but thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard. "I knew it wouldnt help....so why do it then"   Are you serious, you cant be serious. Its called grieving, its ihuman nature, and part of who we are as human beings. Maybe you didnt love you sister?  I understand not crying at first because of the shock factor, but to have never cried at all is on a completly different level, that makes me sad for you. I'm sorry, its none of my business, it just strikes me as odd.
  
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#1 | 1574 days ago

There have been periods in my life that i have cried rivers and there have been a few times that the pain was so deep i couldn't cry or couldn't even make a sound.  I don't wish that kind of pain on anyone.
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#2 | 1573 days ago

Life is only going to get worse so prepare for a long ride
 We come into this life wearing diapers and in you are
unlucky enough, To live long enough you will go out
wearing diapers
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#3 | 1573 days ago

WE ALL GRIEVE AT DIFFERENT LEVELS CRYING IS JUST ONE WAY..A FEW YEARS AGO THE MAN THAT HELP ME GET SOBER AND STAY SOBER PASSED ON I WAS DEVESTAED,CRYING DIDNT HELP,I STILLED GRIEVED IT WASNT UNTIL I WAS ABLE TO TURN THE PAIN OVER TO GOD,THAT I STARTED TO HEAL.EVERYTIME I THINK OF ..WILLY..I TEAR UP A LITTLE ,BUT I TRY TO REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES AND HE IS NOW IN HEAVEN WITH HIS GOD AND I KNOW THAT IS TRULY AWESOME,RELYING ON GOD STRENGTH IS THE ANSWER FOR ME,MAY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU
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#4 | 1571 days ago

I have had my moments, but really there is no greater moment in my life then when I realized that tears are healthy but they are not solving anything. So I vent then go on with life.
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#5 | 1570 days ago
Blonde_Kitten (+)

Yeppers... I think everyone has.
When my sister passed I never cried....I knew it wouldnt help... so why do it then? I didnt know what to do. Still to this day I still dont know what to do...
#6 | 1570 days ago

(Edited by joshmcclelland1)

When my grandpa (my dad basically) died i had no idea what to do. It was pretty terrible, worst of all we were in a pretty big fight about some stupid sh!t when it happened. There isn't a day that pass when i dont have that sinking filling inside me. I'll see him again someday but damn i sure do miss the friendship we had.

#7 | 1570 days ago
Mr_Rogers (+)

Blonde_Kitten wrote:
Yeppers... I think everyone has.
When my sister passed I never cried....I knew it wouldnt help... so why do it then? I didnt know what to do. Still to this day I still dont know what to do...
Kitten, I love you but thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard. "I knew it wouldnt help....so why do it then"   Are you serious, you cant be serious. Its called grieving, its ihuman nature, and part of who we are as human beings. Maybe you didnt love you sister?  I understand not crying at first because of the shock factor, but to have never cried at all is on a completly different level, that makes me sad for you. I'm sorry, its none of my business, it just strikes me as odd.
#8 | 1570 days ago

      Tears are nor a sign of strength or weakness..
#9 | 1570 days ago
Mr_Rogers (+)

Onegoodredhead2 wrote:
      Tears are nor a sign of strength or weakness..
That was about as deep as a puddle...at the end of a 10 minute drizzle.
#10 | 1570 days ago
Blonde_Kitten (+)

Mr_Rogers wrote:
Kitten, I love you but thats the dumbest thing ive ever heard. "I knew it wouldnt help....so why do it then"   Are you serious, you cant be serious. Its called grieving, its ihuman nature, and part of who we are as human beings. Maybe you didnt love you sister?  I understand not crying at first because of the shock factor, but to have never cried at all is on a completly different level, that makes me sad for you. I'm sorry, its none of my business, it just strikes me as odd.
Of course I loved my sister.... I didnt feel like crying. Even tho she was gone for some reason it felt as tho everything was gonna be ok.. maybe because I knew she wasnt in pain anymore, I kept asking myself why I didnt cry. I too thought it was strange...Believe me I dont get it either.
#11 | 1569 days ago

being the youngest of 8 and losing  my favorite sibling and both parents by the time I was 30,, I am all cried out!!!!!
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#12 | 1569 days ago

funny ironic this topic came up when it did. this sunday is the the one year mark of a dear friend of mine killing himself. it's been on my mind a lot lately. when it happened, i cried for a long time. and didn't sleep or eat. i would leave work in the middle of the day and drive for 200+ miles, just mindlessly and slurp the great big cans of red bull. i found later, he'd included me in his note and left his right-hand ring for me which i wore and brought me comfort for all of maybe 7 days when i realized what a selfish retarded ass he was. a dedication to me in his f*cking suicide note?? kinda like "here, i love you, but i'm still gonna put this pistol in my mouth." f*ck you.
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#13 | 1569 days ago

WHEN MY HUSBAND DIED, I CANT CRY FOR SIX MONTHS , I WAS FURIOUS, , AT LAST, I CRY AND WAS VERY GOOD , MY HEARTH WAS BROKEN , BUT I CAN GO AWAY IN THE LIFE, BE STRONG IS NOT NO CRY, CRY IS BE STRONG.-
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#14 | 1569 days ago
Mr_Rogers (+)

ms_hippie_queen wrote:
funny ironic this topic came up when it did. this sunday is the the one year mark of a dear friend of mine killing himself. it's been on my mind a lot lately. when it happened, i cried for a long time. and didn't sleep or eat. i would leave work in the middle of the day and drive for 200+ miles, just mindlessly and slurp the great big cans of red bull. i found later, he'd included me in his note and left his right-hand ring for me which i wore and brought me comfort for all of maybe 7 days when i realized what a selfish retarded ass he was. a dedication to me in his f*cking suicide note?? kinda like "here, i love you, but i'm still gonna put this pistol in my mouth." f*ck you.
That reminds me of my friend, her mother killed herself like 20 years ago when my friend was only like 10. Now my friend has 3 kids and she always tells them that her mom is in heaven looking down on them, but shes really in hell because thats the ultimate FU to God (if you believe in that kind of thing) Anyway, I usually dont have much sympathy for people who kill themselves, unless they are termianlly ill, and not just trying to take the easy way out, we all have our problems.
#15 | 1569 days ago

Mr_Rogers wrote:
That reminds me of my friend, her mother killed herself like 20 years ago when my friend was only like 10. Now my friend has 3 kids and she always tells them that her mom is in heaven looking down on them, but shes really in hell because thats the ultimate FU to God (if you believe in that kind of thing) Anyway, I usually dont have much sympathy for people who kill themselves, unless they are termianlly ill, and not just trying to take the easy way out, we all have our problems.
i feel the same way about suicide. his "problem" was he'd be doing some pretty hard time for a third dui in texas. boo f*ckin hoo. i woulda done the time for him if i could have. jesus christ. never even saw it coming. last thing he said to me was a very chipper "honey, i'm home!" what a spineless scumbag he turned out to be. i know it sounds selfish for me to be all "woe is me,"  and "how could he hurt us so badly?" but f*ck him. what he did was weak and the most selfish thing a human can do. what a crock of sh*t.

eh...i apparently still have some grievance issues to work out. and he was just a friend. i can't imagine how it must have been for your friend....
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#16 | 1569 days ago
Mr_Rogers (+)

ms_hippie_queen wrote:
i feel the same way about suicide. his "problem" was he'd be doing some pretty hard time for a third dui in texas. boo f*ckin hoo. i woulda done the time for him if i could have. jesus christ. never even saw it coming. last thing he said to me was a very chipper "honey, i'm home!" what a spineless scumbag he turned out to be. i know it sounds selfish for me to be all "woe is me,"  and "how could he hurt us so badly?" but f*ck him. what he did was weak and the most selfish thing a human can do. what a crock of sh*t.

eh...i apparently still have some grievance issues to work out. and he was just a friend. i can't imagine how it must have been for your friend....
She made it out Ok, she is pretty well adjusted, but her brother on the other hand is a douche bag. I think his problems are more linked to his moms suicide, hes always talking bout killing himself like his mom did, drinks everyday and he is very self hating. He also has 3 kids of his own, and I feel soo bad for them that they have to grow up around that. Get your shit together, do whatever you have to do to make yourself better, for you children...AT LEAST.
#17 | 1569 days ago

Mr_Rogers wrote:
She made it out Ok, she is pretty well adjusted, but her brother on the other hand is a douche bag. I think his problems are more linked to his moms suicide, hes always talking bout killing himself like his mom did, drinks everyday and he is very self hating. He also has 3 kids of his own, and I feel soo bad for them that they have to grow up around that. Get your shit together, do whatever you have to do to make yourself better, for you children...AT LEAST.
i agree. it's a pernicious thing though...
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#18 | 1568 days ago
ssusiej46 (+)

I have lost a lot of loved one's in my family but when my son was killed that was the hardest thing in my life ,i cried and took me a year to really deal with it, but i came thur it,  he is in my heart every day, but my faith tell's me he is in a better place and i feel i will see him again and yes i still cry after all this time, but i cry for me not him because i miss him and his beautiful smile and never feel that it is a weakness to cry it is called emotion and it make's me strong

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#19 | 1567 days ago

all of the above,
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