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NOW THATS A SLAP IN THE FACE
 I NEED SOME ADVICE FELLOW IQUERS ,PITCHURE THIS YOU ARE SITTING AT YOUR KITCHEN TABLE YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER COMES IN AND TELLS YOU THEY HAVE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE AND IS LEAVING YOU,THEY GET UP AND WALKS OUT...THIS HAPPEN TO A FRIEND OF MINE AND HE HAS ASKED ME FOR SOME SUPPORT ,I CAN DO THAT BUT THIS HAS NEVER HAPPEN TO ME AND NOT SURE OF WHAT I DO IF MY WIFE DID THAT (I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 40 YEARS) SO IQUERS HAS THIS EVER HAPPEN TO YOU OR WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU WOULD DO IF IT DID.ABOUT A YEAR AGO HE WENT THROUGH  HIS DAUGHTER GETTING BEAT AND RAPED ,HE IS HAVING A TOUGH TIME HOW CAN I HELP
| Closed on 09/02/10 at 05:00PM
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15 Fans 
53%a. NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE
0%b. I DID THIS
20%c. JUST PRAY
0%d. HE NEEDS THERAPY
27%e. OTHER

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#1 | 1438 days ago
18packabs (+)

First of all be his friend.........



Then tell him F$#k that B*tch, you are way too good for Her.....NEXT
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#1 | 1438 days ago
18packabs (+)

First of all be his friend.........



Then tell him F$#k that B*tch, you are way too good for Her.....NEXT
OTHER  
#2 | 1438 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

 What doesn't kill us only makes us stronger.  God I don't know it seems like he's having to deal with a lot.

I truly believe that living well is the best revenge. He should say fine good bye and good luck. And when her world falls apart, and it will (karma)  she will be the one saying what the hell did I do. 
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#3 | 1438 days ago

Been there, done that, am way better off for it.  Hurts like hell for awhile, but Glenda and Ed have it pegged!
JUST PRAY  
#4 | 1438 days ago

urge him to launch a pre-emptive strike with a good lawyer.  take EVERYTHING.  if she gets the upper hand she will suddenly love public sex. she will F**K him in front of a judge.
OTHER  
#5 | 1438 days ago

In '94 my ex-wife told all her friends that she was leaving me, then the night before she left she gave me some pity p***y  and acted like everything was fine. Since she was in the military at the time she took the kids and left for Italy while I stayed behind to sell our house. The movers came and packed up all our stuff and once the house was sold she told me she didn't want to be married anymore. I swore I would get her ace back if it took 20 years, I have nothing but time.

Ten years later she came down with breast cancer (karma), she survived it but got those cancer curls and blew up like a friggin walrus. I've forgiven her but you have to be patient if you want pay back for the pain you felt.  
#6 | 1438 days ago

I'm way to inexperienced to say anything here. All i can say if you are determined enough then you can sail through any storm and at the end of it there will be a golden sky.
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#7 | 1438 days ago

Tell her to put two eggs in her shoes and beat it.  He'll be better off in the long run and he can focus on assisting his daughter in her continued recovery. 
#8 | 1438 days ago

Tell him that once he's done huddling in the corner listening to "How Am I Supposed To Live Without You", to pick himself up and go live his life to the fullest
#9 | 1438 days ago

I am sure she has her side of the story to tell.  Just be there for him,  it's best not to give advice in these cases.  They may get back together and you will end up being hated. (maybe).  Help him with anything he needs help with and just listen.  He will figure it out.
OTHER  
#10 | 1438 days ago

Just be there for him...He needs someone to listen.
#11 | 1438 days ago

As long as she didn`t take the remote when she left I`d say your friend will be ok.
#12 | 1436 days ago

I told my 2 EX'S don't get in front of the TV while your moving your sh*t out
#13 | 1427 days ago

I would say F**k her! and then proceed to throw her sh*t out the window...or worse...who knows? have i been drinking when this conversation takes place?
#14 | 1427 days ago

I would look at her and say.....Your still here?
#15 | 1426 days ago

I was married for 8 years to my first wife. I walked in one night after spending 13+ hours at work to find her gone...we never had one argument, never one problem...who knows...but I do know this...

...that God has a plan for our lives, and he sent my Princess, the love of my life, to me 5 years ago. She is my rock, the love of my life...
JUST PRAY  
#16 | 1426 days ago

I could sit here silent on this poll, but I can't help myself... IF I was ever cheated on.. Please help the guy that cheated.... I will show no mercy!  I can't stand for cheaters...... She is not for him, he can do better..
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#17 | 1426 days ago

Nikki20 wrote:
I could sit here silent on this poll, but I can't help myself... IF I was ever cheated on.. Please help the guy that cheated.... I will show no mercy!  I can't stand for cheaters...... She is not for him, he can do better..
you totally mean, if you ever found out. Trust me, it happens and people tend to take it better than most think they will.
#18 | 1426 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

kobe_lova wrote:
you totally mean, if you ever found out. Trust me, it happens and people tend to take it better than most think they will.
 Amen, I simply said wow glad you could finally find someone to sleep with you.  Then he left well with my help of course. 
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#19 | 1426 days ago

my ex walked out on me the night before i had my first brain/spine surgery......of course it was VERY hard, however keeping in perspective that we can not control those things,and they happen for a reason got me through......
     just be a good listener,and be supportive...let him know there  is a reason for everything...and plese send him my thoughts and prayers!
#20 | 1426 days ago

my ex walked out on me the night before i had my first brain/spine surgery......of course it was VERY hard, however keeping in perspective that we can not control those things,and they happen for a reason got me through......
     just be a good listener,and be supportive...let him know there  is a reason for everything...and plese send him my thoughts and prayers!
#21 | 1426 days ago

kobe_lova wrote:
you totally mean, if you ever found out. Trust me, it happens and people tend to take it better than most think they will.
I don't know, maybe you are right here. I just had a very frightful moment( not with B/F)  and I  am not thinking clearly.. kinda like a drunk moment, but without the booze   LOL
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#22 | 1426 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 Amen, I simply said wow glad you could finally find someone to sleep with you.  Then he left well with my help of course. 
dang it all out of respect for you.. most everyone I talk to I cant give respects too.... NICE... I will remember this one if it ever happens to me again!!
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#23 | 1426 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 Amen, I simply said wow glad you could finally find someone to sleep with you.  Then he left well with my help of course. 
well, being a free spirited chick myself, I cast no stones...but I like I've said before, I tend to disagree with women on certain sensitive subjects.
#24 | 1426 days ago
cubsgirl2 (+)

kobe_lova wrote:
well, being a free spirited chick myself, I cast no stones...but I like I've said before, I tend to disagree with women on certain sensitive subjects.
 I thought it was classic. And after a husband that cheated on me foir years and I tolerated it that one was easy to say get out to. 
NOW THATS A TOUGH ONE  
#25 | 1426 days ago

cubsgirl2 wrote:
 I thought it was classic. And after a husband that cheated on me foir years and I tolerated it that one was easy to say get out to. 

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