is love-marriage better than arrange marriage?

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22	is love-marriage better than arrange marriage? \| Closed on 08/02/09 at 05:00PM FanIQ Pts? No \| Locker Room \| Multiple Choice Opinion Poll

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83%	a. yes
17%	b. no

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#8 \| 145 days ago mooser58 (+)	Arranged marriage...you have a shotgun put to your back and you are told what to do. Love marriage...you have someone telling you what to do once you get married and you want to use a shotgun on them. yes
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#1 \| 145 days ago yruwet2 (+)	In America it is. In America you can choose who and when you want to get married to someone you can be emotionaly attached and complete with. In America you can get a divorce, because you realized that you made a huge mistake.. In America you can also get a mail order bride! yes
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#2 \| 145 days ago das3cr (+)	Not knowing anything about arranged marriage I am going to have to go with my gut on this one. I fail to see how an arranged marriage could be better than one entered into by two people who love each other. YMMV yes
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#3 \| 145 days ago meghnahshah (+)	Indeed a love marriage is better than arranged as in love marriage you know the person whom you are marrying, You are attached emotionally to the person you are marrying, where as in arranged marriage, its all black, you are not able to see your future life, its like a lottery if you get a success else the life becomes hell. yes
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#4 \| 145 days ago Poli_ (+)	(Edited by Poli_) Fall in love. Fall out of love. There's a 50% rate or chance of divorce. Arranged marriages do work but that is because of the cultural pressure of making it work. Any good marriage is based on give and take, and growing together in wisdom and experience. yes
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#5 \| 145 days ago nader2009 (+)	I cant understand an arrenged marriage any more. As well as I dont understand why marriages on love come to an end so soon in many cases. I hadnt tried none yet(wink) yes
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#6 \| 145 days ago abdulrhmn007 (+)	yes love is great yes
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#7 \| 145 days ago topnach (+)	Never been in an arranged marriage. Maybe you should tell us. yes
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#8 \| 145 days ago mooser58 (+)	Arranged marriage...you have a shotgun put to your back and you are told what to do. Love marriage...you have someone telling you what to do once you get married and you want to use a shotgun on them. yes
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#9 \| 145 days ago mojorisin188 (+)	(Edited by mojorisin188) Love Marriage is great because you have a decision be with someone, Arranged Marriage: not so good... you never know who youll get until after you said "I DO": why does it look like this man has money (his currency) pinned to his suit? Is that a PAYMENT for marrying someones daughter?
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#10 \| 145 days ago alagarps (+)	Arranged marriage is better, because if any difference of opinion comes, the elders & relatives will come forward to solve the problem amicably. no
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#11 \| 145 days ago bmcannon1 (+)	With the way my luck runs, if i had the arranged marriage i would have ended up with the ugleist, nastiest, smelliest, and just all around mean and hatefuliest woman ever. Damn, come to think of it, my first wife was all of the above.
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#12 \| 145 days ago troiboi68 (+)	I would be more comfortable and prefer knowing about the person I intend to marry, as would most people. Marriage is fun and work and can deeply fulfilling if BOTH parties work at it. In my opinion, I don't see much effort of both parties in an arranged marriage if they are motivated more by culture as oppose to genuine love to work through marital problems. yes
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#13 \| 145 days ago aroraarun77 (+)	YOU ARE ASKING WHICH DEATH IS BETTER - NATURAL OR SUICIDE?
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#14 \| 145 days ago fI3RyBaLlS (+)	Not logical/rational.. Folow your animal instinct... no
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#15 \| 145 days ago cuddles127017 (+)	Marriage is tough enough when two people love each other. I couldn't fathom going to bed with a stranger. yes
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#16 \| 145 days ago hockey54 (+)	it didn`t work out..she got the house and he got the dog!!!
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#17 \| 145 days ago blondie45044 (+)	Marriage with love is hard enough at times without throwing in the mix of not knowing your partner you intend to be with!
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#18 \| 145 days ago LadyWolf_41 (+)	If you think about it, arranged marriage is kind of like prostitution...you are being "pimped off'" to the highest bidder! I could not imagine marrying someone that you don't even know or marrying someone you met when you were 4. I read Alagarps reply about arranged marriages being better because if you have a difference of opinion the elders and family come to solve it. What???!!!! What the holy hell is that? That's a bunch of BULL$*&^! And, because of the countries that arranged marriages are in, the woman is going to get her opinion slapped back in her face. And, if she still does not make her opinion that of her husband, she will be severely reprimanded. Yeah, that's what I want...someone to help my husband beat and abuse me! yes
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#19 \| 144 days ago computer_guy999 (+)	I would think a love marriage - meeting that special someone, falling in love, and letting nature take it's course... yes
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#20 \| 144 days ago BikerBaby (+)	To be in love is the best feeling!! Your floating on a cloud & nothing can bring you down-espeically if the one that you fell in love with feels the same way.And if you can't seem to find love- don't give up !!!! There's that special someone out there that's your future has picked for you.Sometimes the best things come along when your not looking!! Happy soul hunting!!! yes
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#21 \| 144 days ago marcus_nyce (+)	What about gay arranged marriages? Is this a problem for people who are not gay? Why isn't this on Oprah? LOL yes
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#22 \| 132 days ago sbh2110 (+)	marriage is all abt spoiling ur love life.may it be arranged or love.
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35	Jahiegel 08/01/2009 09:24PM		yes
34	Anthonyg7575 07/08/2009 09:07AM		yes
33	sana_gul185 07/05/2009 11:07PM		no
32	marcus_nyce 07/04/2009 12:56PM		yes
31	mikeam7 07/04/2009 12:50PM		yes
30	BikerBaby 07/04/2009 12:32PM		yes
29	computer_guy999 07/04/2009 01:35AM		yes
28	CRAZY_LADY 07/03/2009 10:08PM		yes
27	LadyWolf_41 07/03/2009 09:53PM		yes
26	ukcatfan383 07/03/2009 08:41PM		yes
25	G Money 07/03/2009 05:36PM		yes
24	danny_n94 07/03/2009 03:56PM		yes
23	cuddles127017 07/03/2009 03:49PM		yes
22	fI3RyBaLlS 07/03/2009 03:35PM		no
21	Cali_Kat 07/03/2009 03:30PM		yes
20	Michael G 07/03/2009 03:28PM		yes
19	towsongirl12 07/03/2009 02:05PM		yes
18	swimgirly 07/03/2009 11:58AM		yes
17	gettin_slim77 07/03/2009 11:58AM		yes
16	troiboi68 07/03/2009 11:21AM		yes
15	akshu_0516 07/03/2009 10:14AM		no
14	alagarps 07/03/2009 10:13AM		no
13	mooser58 07/03/2009 09:35AM		yes
12	topnach 07/03/2009 09:26AM		yes
11	qtowndogg 07/03/2009 09:11AM		yes
10	ChristiSunshine 07/03/2009 09:07AM		yes
9	qahira72 07/03/2009 08:33AM		no
8	abdulrhmn007 07/03/2009 08:33AM		yes
7	sriramsupraja 07/03/2009 08:29AM		no
6	nader2009 07/03/2009 08:22AM		yes
5	DeeRigga 07/03/2009 07:57AM		yes
4	Poli_ 07/03/2009 07:47AM		yes
3	meghnahshah 07/03/2009 07:45AM		yes
2	das3cr 07/03/2009 07:24AM		yes
1	yruwet2 07/03/2009 07:29AM		yes